what do i do i cant stand the ***** i dont want to kick her out cause for one im not mean and the other reason is because she has no where to go shes 16 and so am i and i no u all just say its puppy love and im not even old enough yet but this is still ****** up what do i do?
2006-07-03 21:33:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Move out. Your right, you ARE young, but that really means nothing when you are 16 and already in this situation. I am 37 and I know this much. No matter the age, if you are living in a situation, it STILL needs to be handled. Where are your parents? WHY do you need to live with him? This is all I will tell you. You ARE 16 and if you START NOW, ALLOWING this sort of thing, by the time you are MY age, you will have given up trying to fight for your feelings to be heard and that makes you an easy target for abusers. Stand up, forget about being NICE and be what you want to be......ASSERTIVE. If you are not heard, then re evaluate what you are allowing yourself to accept. Just, whatever you do, DON'T allow yourself to do something YOU don't feel right about. That way, you stay true to yorself and what you believe. WOULD YOUR B/F ALLOW THE SAME SITUATION IFTHE ROLES WERE REVERSED?
2006-07-03 21:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break up with your boyfriend and bring in a new boyfriend and see if he likes that!!!LOL.
But what the hell where you thinking when you move in with him???and her??? Didn't he tell you, he still had the other one in his house???You should befriend her and figure out a way that both of you can escape out of that situation and dump his @ss. You are only in this situation cause of him!!!That guy doesn't really love you other wise why is he ok with the ex in his house.LEAVE, LEAVE while your still young!!!Oh by the way I hope you don't get pregnant LEAVE!!!!
2006-07-04 04:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by MARS227 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look just talk to ur bf tell him how u are feeling about his ex living there too, if he loves u and respct u then he would take care of it without any problems maybe he can move her into her our place or some **** but just talk to him and if things dont change get the hell out of there bc u dont need an *** like him then
2006-07-04 04:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by dreaming_of_u_16862002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my dear, what ever possessed you to get yourself into a situation like that, you poor thing, You need to ask yourself a few questions, like, does he really love me, or does he like the idea of having her around also. Remember to love someone is a wonderful feeling, but if they dont love you back the way you desire, then you are wasting your precious young years. You say your only 16, and yes, you can love someone at that age, but please dont throw your love away on someone that is not going to show you the respect and trust that you deserve. Good Luck
2006-07-04 04:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay your 16 you should still be at home,and if he has his ex still there i would wound if they don't still have a thing. That or what if he leaves you high and dry i would sit back and think everything over really well
2006-07-04 04:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back home and let her have him, why would he have her there and you too, this is a sick plan of his, you may be in love but he isnt, he seems to like to have around his flings,why doesnt she leave, it is not his problem she is doesnt have a place to go. go back home and be a teenager like you are suppose to, you dont need to be living at you puppy loves house.
2006-07-04 04:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn thas sum crazy sh*t rii there lol...i dont understand y ur bf would want ur ex wit u guyz anyway(??) i kno this is not wat u wanna hear prolly but u need 2 talk wit ur bf and ask him wats up..about all of this.... ohh ya, u said ur not a mean person..so u should try 2 b freinds wit her..evn if she is kinda messed up..but ppl can change *shrugs*
dont kno if i helped ya, but hope i did
2006-07-04 04:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by jaz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you need to dump him because you never know if he is till going out with his ex
2006-07-04 14:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by cootiepiejp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave ur BF for her n u just escape from the scene
2006-07-04 04:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by paathu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is having the cake and eating it too.
2006-07-04 06:21:08 · answer #10 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋