he controls me phisically and mentally and im having a nervous break down what should i do......... one mnute hes happy and one minute hes mad sad or pissed off but i dont no whats going on *HELP*
2006-07-03 21:18:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get professional help. You need real help!
2006-07-03 21:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing, I too know what this is like and have been having councelling for quite a while, I have learnt to not allow myself to listen to the b.......t but in fact remove myself away from him when he starts, believe me, he will soon get sick of talking to himself, or then you can try "changing the subject" of what he is carrying on about, this also works, but I agree with your other answers, try to get some help, or remove yourself from this situation, he needs help but like most "mental abusers" they think the problem is not theirs. Usually I have found when they are blaming you for something, its because they are the one to blame and their guilty consence is proding them, and they cant accept the blame, so they blame and accuse the only one that will stay and stand there and listen. Please dont let him do that to you, go out for a walk, tak the dog, go visit friends, etc etc, but dont let him drive you into the ground. Go Girl, I am thinking of you. Good Luck
2006-07-04 04:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is no easy answer for this question but in my opinion you should sit him down and talk to him about what he is doing to you and see if he is willing to seek professional help with you in the form of marriage counseling, and if he is unwilling to do that and there is no other recourse that you can take then my best suggestion is to flat out tell him he needs to quit the things he is doing and try to make amends or you will have no choice but to file for divorce because in a marriage you are supposed to love and cherish your partner not abuse them and girl it sounds to me like all he is doing is abusing you and try those things and i hope it works out for the best.
2006-07-04 04:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by draco_401 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm lol ok im confused now...this id da 3rd question im answerin of urs and lik da last one said u lived wit ur bf and his ex...how is that wen u hav a husband whos playin mind games witchu?? im totally confused...unless ur jus lik bored makin up questions..lol. am i right or wrong??
2006-07-04 04:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by jaz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to go to the DR's and get some prozac/paxil. That willstop the mood swings
2006-07-04 04:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by beer_pharts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet he is bi-polar. It can be very bad for you. I would leave. He could hurt you bad one day as his disease progresses.
Or if you want, you can become bi-polar too and you guys will get along great.
2006-07-04 04:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional counseling for both of you
2006-07-04 04:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by paki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself. This is abuse and considered domestic violence (even if he's never hit you, it's still dom. violence!). Get your skinny butt out of there now while you still can!!! You deserve better! He is not worth your health! No one is.
2006-07-04 08:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might be bipolar. He needs help and you need to leave.
2006-07-04 04:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god!!!!!!! thats a hard one. in this way he is hurting u! u should talk t him about it and if things dont fix after a while tell him u cant handle it anymore... maybe u should divorce... i dont know.. but ido know u should talk...
2006-07-04 04:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by vassia s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋