Momma's Boys?

Question

What do you do if you are in a serious relationship with someone you love and have a child with but they are always putting their mother in your relationship every time something doesn't go his way he is calling his mom and telling her everything and the bad thing about it is that she doesn't live far away from us and he goes home every week i am honestly getting tired of him and his mom and she is so navie when it comes to him because he is the only child she stills cater to him as if he was a child. How should I let her know to back off or you and your son will be together by yourselves

Answer 1

WELL, FIRST OF ALL SHE PROBABLY WOULD NOT INTERFERE IF HE DID NOT RUN TO HER,,

THATS NOT VERY "HUSBANDLY LIKE"

I HAD A MOTHER IN LAW THAT TREATED HER SON LIKE A CHILD, AND WOULD ALWAYS GET ME ALONE AND TELL ME OVER AND OVER MAKE MY JR, EAT HIS VITAMINS, YOU MUST TAKE GOD CARE OF HIM
YOU MUST BE CLEAN
YOU MUST KEEP THE HOUSE CLEAN ALWAYS
ETC,
ONE TIME SHE TOOK ME IN MY BATHROOM AFTER I HAD SHOWERED AND MY BATHROOM WAS CLEAN,,
YET SHE SAID DO YHOU THINK THIS IS CLEAN?

AND SHE SAID LOOK HERE, SHE POINTED TO THE SHOWER DOOR AND WATER SPOTS AND STARTED WIPING OFF THE WATER SPOTS, AND SAID THAT IS NOT GOOD, YOU NEED TO DO BETTER, AND I WAS MISERABLE,

YOU DID NOT NEED TO HEAR ALL THAT ,, SORRY, IT JUST BROUGHT BACK MEMORIES,

RE YOUR HUSBAND, YOU MUST TELL HIM YOU MARRIED HIM AND HE YOU, AND HE DID NOT MARRY HIS MOMMY TOO, HE IS SUPPOSED TO LEAVE THE NEST ONCE AND FOR ALL, VISIT AS A FAMILY, BUT NOT FOR MOTHERS TELLING THEM THEY ARE OK AND THE WIFE IS WRONG,

YOU DO NOT STAND A CHANCE IN THIS "THREESOME" so YES TELL HIM TO MAKE UP HIS MIND, AND STAND ON HIS OWN TWO FEET NOT HIS MOTHERS APRON STRINGS,

YOU NEEED TO WORK THINGS OUT TOGETHER OR SEE A COUNSELOR, AND "UNINTERESTED PARTY" IF YOU NEED HELP..\

TELL HER, THAT IT IS NOT SUPPORTIVE OF YOUR MARRIAGE IF SHE GETS INVOLVED WITH YOUR PERSONAL LIFE, AND YOU LOVE HER AND WANT TO BE A FAMILY, BUT HER NOT TO COUNSEL BECAUSE SHE IS NOT QUALIFIED, NOR IS A FAIR,,CHOICE,,
GOOD LUCK

Answer 2

Hey Beauty your boyfriend is a child and now you have a child with him, and you arent even married. You need to get him and you and your child to move far away from his mother (the Beast), otherwise, you may always be second to her. Of course you've known that all along, I am willing to bet your not being married has something to do with...The Beast Did you think you were gonna change him. You might try giving him an ultimatum, but be prepared, he may choose his mommy. For the sake of your child, you need to make things work out. You might suggest counseling for you and him together to see if you can get him to grow up and become a man.

Answer 3

Be careful-if u tell her to back off or else u may end up w/o him. Why not try to discuss w/ your bf how what he does makes u feel then talk to his mom-make sure to be willing to compromise & think b4 u speak. It's hard to do but in the long run don't u think u should try to communicate your feelings & needs rather than "throw in the towel?" His mom is always going to be around so pick your battles carefully

Answer 4

why would you want a mamas boy in your life,i would hate it, leave him and let him go to his mama, you will aways be second in his life, sucks i know but thats the way it is and you have to put up with it if you dont leave.good luck with mama.

Answer 5

alright, i am a complete mommas boy and im telling you it will be difficult. my wife straight up told me to grow up. he has issues with his mother, not "bad" issues but issues. but dont tell his mom, tell him to, "get off his moms tit." it worked for me

Answer 6

That won't work.... Move...either he will follow, or stay home with Mamma. Either way you will be better off.

Answer 7

you can not change a mommas boy, so get ready to take the back seat, he is all she has.

Answer 8

Just tell him that and he will tell her because they are close

Answer 9

well it looks like thats what you sould do any way

Answer 10

You just said it!