he met me and my family be for he married me and he wants me to leave my children and start a life with him on my own and hes controling........ and im at my whits end what should i do ?
2006-07-03 21:04:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why in the worl would you be asking strangers what you should do? He has told you he doesn't want your minor children what else do you need for him to say, do you want someone to tell you stay with him and send your children off? Well I would never say that because when he married you he knew you had these children so what is the matter with him now? He needs to grow up and you need to tell him these are your children and your not giving them up.
2006-07-04 05:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
When you marry you don't just marry the individual you marry that person's whole family. This shouldn't even be a question in your mind. Your children come first before any of your own desires. This should be a no brainer.
2006-07-03 22:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by sdo3lg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him! He is bad news! Anyone that would ask a mother to leave her children is not a good person.
Your children do not deserve this person being in your life. Get away from him!
2006-07-03 21:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his sorry ***!!!! He knew when he married you it was a package deal and now he wants you to choose!!!! You can always find another man but you cannot lose the love of your children.
2006-07-10 15:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack while he is at work and move at least 2 states away from his controlling ***, your children will end up hating you if you cant or wont put their safety and well being first, they need you to be their fiercest advocate so get packing and planning it's time to be the adult.
2006-07-03 23:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by sherzada8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before he met you he knew who you were and were you were coming from.Your past made you who you are today.He may seem confused and think of you children as excess baggage.However if he wants you to choose between him and your children.Never make a choice.Let him be and its not worth fighting.He should accept you for all that you are and if he really loves you then he will accept your children too.Tell him how you feel .
2006-07-03 21:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce.
2006-07-03 21:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I bet you are emotionally drained. If you need someone to talk to I.M me. OK
2006-07-03 21:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know, that it's a total package. Take it or leave it.
2006-07-03 21:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a man dont like kids that man is not going to give u happiess.
2006-07-03 21:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by Andy Heckmen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋