What would be the best way to tell an insecure girl shes pretty without sounding like you're hitting on her. Just a sincere compliment?
2006-07-03 20:32:28 · 18 answers · asked by sTRIKER 81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well why aren't you hitting on her? Thats a hard one cause if she thinks you like her, then finds out it was only a compliment that you dont like her in that "way" you might hurt her more. Just tell her she looks nice one day, but do it casually. If you really want to make her fell good tell her she looks like some actress or singer, whichever one she could resemble the most. Aww why dont you like her, you thought enough about her to ask this question. Your a sweet guy, I wish some guy thought enough about me to ask a question about me. My boyfriends complains about having to celebrate valentines day, or having to buy me flowers. there needs to be more guys like you in this world.=)
2006-07-03 20:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Its all in the tone of voice. Sound sincere and sound like a friend. If you only want to tell her that she is beautiful and not sound romantically interested then tell her "Look, I think you are absolutely beautiful and I wish you would see that. As a friend, I think you need to know this because you really are."
2006-07-03 20:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by lettie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very sweet and thoughtful of you.
I think you need to let her know first and foremost that you think she is is a wonderful person and friend with so much to offer. Mention some of her talents, skills etc..then throw in there that she is easy on the eyes as well...and she should be proud of who she is. This is a sincere approach that includes the whole package. She is lucky to have you as a friend!
2006-07-03 20:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by Venusp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a sincere, genuine compliment is the way. Be straight to the point...just tell her that you think she's beautiful...even if she doesn't, you do...
2006-07-03 20:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bert from Oz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like you did. sound pretty sincere to me.
2006-07-03 20:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by angelw/brkwingcrookedhalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say..."I know you really well and i can see that you are beautiful--inside and out. Really, as a friend, I can tell you that honestly."
or something like that... make sure she isn't just fishing for compliments though...? hahaha
2006-07-03 20:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by mjb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaww your sweet.
Just complimeny her. Say nice shirt. nice pants. nice ears. etc. but font mention the eyes lips, *** she'll think your hitting on her.
2006-07-03 20:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by Potathao 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try telling her to not get the wrong impression but your honesty compells you to compliment.
2006-07-03 20:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by JERRY L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her be insecure. telling a girl shes pretty doesn't mean sh*t. trust me
2006-07-03 20:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by tim e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "You look very nice today." Or "You look pretty." Just be honest with her, and I'm sure she'll appreciate it.
2006-07-03 20:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by acholtz@verizon.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋