2006-07-03 20:24:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he has no confidence in himself.
2006-07-03 20:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does it for your reaction. Unless you do the little things that reinforce that you like him alot, he may not believe that you do. More than just saying it. Things like making his lunch or a surprise candy bar on his car seat before work with a note. You do some little things for him so show that you care before he plays the game and he will stop playing the games. Try and see
2006-07-04 03:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by whatwouldyodado2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's insecure. He feels that something is going to tear you two apart, but what he doesn't realize is that it is him who will do it. Talk to him about it. Let him know that he is pushing you away by doing this, and that you don't plan on leaving him at your own will. He's going to need to change his habit of playing games, or you'll need to give up on playing them with him.
2006-07-04 03:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's insecure. Talk to him about this behavior and how childish and unappropriate it really is. If he's not willing to seek counseling to get this sorted out, then you really need to dump him. You'll never stop playing these games, and no you cannot fix him yourself. That never works.
2006-07-04 03:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by acholtz@verizon.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is the one that is insecure. Don't play games with love. If you know its real, affection and words of love is all that is needed.
2006-07-04 03:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes testing himself because there is no trust. He has been hurt in the past and is afraid to let go and move on to his future.Without trust you have no future. He plays games because he is afraid that you will dump him and it will hurt his feelings
2006-07-04 03:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by yahoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His insecurity has caught up with him. Is he under 15? The reason I ask is because real men don't act that way, and real women don't let insecure little boys send them through that kind of drama. Your move!
2006-07-04 03:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by Ann's Husband 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could be jealious of you talking to other guys. Or maybe he just wants to keep the relationship alive. Or, he is just unsure for some reason!
2006-07-04 03:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by skillsusa_california 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's insecure or immature. If you want to be with a passive aggressive person like this, that is your choice.
personally, a person like that I consider cruel and not deserving of my love, trust, respect or time. I would dump him.
2006-07-04 03:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely insecure, he wants to see if you react when he says something like ' I cant see you for a couple of days' he wants to be in control and if u allow him to he'll continue to do it.. you need to turn the tables
2006-07-07 06:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are infamous for playing games with guys. kinda sucks when the tables are turned. sorry no pity here
2006-07-04 03:29:26 · answer #11 · answered by tim e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋