I am getting a divorce and my soon to be ex still wants to have sex with me. I don't have feelings for him at all. I am sort of afraid to start a sexual relationship with someone else. I'll be single again and I am kind of excited to be my on my own again. Any suggestions?
2006-07-03 20:22:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You were married for twenty years.......hell girl you start as soon as you can...good to see someone who is not all depress about been single again,, your ready just remember that now and days you cant party with out a party hat,,be safe just a tip for your new single life have fun!!!!!!!!!! good luck.
2006-07-04 05:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it takes a good 24 months to readjust after a divorce. But, that doesn't mean you have e to wait to have a sexual relationship (but, not with an ex - not good) - Life goes by quickly - pack all the pleasure you can in. GO for it! Enjoy! Cheers!
2006-07-03 20:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by limeyheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOUR EX!
Give yourself some time before you have sex again. Also be sure when you do decide your ready, no matter what, make sure
the guy wears a condom (sexually transmitted diseases) are much more common than they were 20 years ago (they were pretty common then too) . Don't rush things you are old enough and you will know when the time is right.
2006-07-03 20:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If after 20+ years with your Ex you still want sex with him do you really want a divorce ?
Assuming the answers yes, don't rush into a new relationship unless there's already someone on the horizon...
2006-07-03 20:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by 22ndSaS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-06 01:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by Yanita K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOME WAIT FOR A LONG TIME, WHILE OTHERS JUMP RIGHT BACK IN THE SADDLE AGAIN. MY DIVORCE WAS FINAL ON FRIDAY LAST. SO WE ARE IN THE SAME BOAT. DON'T DO ANYTHING SEXUAL WITH THE EX, AS HE JUST WANTS AN EASY AND FAMILIAR PORT IN A STORM. OKAY TO BE FRIENDS AND SUCH BUT NO HANKY PANKY. HE HAD THAT AND LET IT GO SO TOO BAD FOR HM.
2006-07-03 20:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by BOOMBOOMBILLY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do don't get involved in a sexual realtionship with your soon to be ex. I know you were together for along time but you will find someone else. Just give yourself time.
2006-07-03 20:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as they say the ball is in your part of teh feild. Only you can determine whether you are ready or not. I'd tell you one thing do not put too much weight on sex alone I'm sure there are equally other things you'd like to do. P.S. I'm not your ex.
2006-07-03 20:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by samydan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and have a fling. It would be too easy to sleep with the ex again, because it's comfortable, but a fling could help make you more comfortable with others. Have fun!!
2006-07-03 20:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you waiting for. your going through a divorce so your not together go have as much sex as you want. men have sex all the time with different ladies so go for it. find some fresh meat.
2006-07-03 21:00:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋