My boyfriend of 4 months asked me to marry him.. We have a long distance relationship and never have met each other.. Is it real? will we last?
2006-07-03 20:11:14 · 14 answers · asked by exoticmi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it could just give it time...my husband and i were long distance and fell in love before we met so it can happen
2006-07-03 20:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by tinker143 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say hold off on the whole marriage thing for awhile 4 months is still the beginning stages of a relationship really when you think aout it espcially one that is long distance how long has it been long distance? and do you two even know each other it could work but give it some more time and see what happens :)
2006-07-03 20:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by bobbo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing to do is to establish a meeting place, then spend some quality time with him to get to know him. if you still like him, I say go for it. If you can keep a long term relationship going for four months, you might have a good thing going for you. I could never keep one going for that long. Good Luck!
2006-07-03 20:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by cool arrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably meet him first before you start picking out wedding dresses. 4 months is kind of early to be thinking about marriage, but odder things have happened. I guess you should really think about it... Do you love this person? Probably not yet. You can't say that you love his kisses, you love the way he looks at you, and you haven't been given the chance to see what life is really like with him. Meet this man before you jump off the cliff with him.
2006-07-03 20:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..you have never even met your boyfriend?? how is he your boyfriend? couples usually spend some amount of time dating, going out etc. seems to me you have a pen-pal or im buddy..go out and meet someone IN PERSON, spend time getting to know that person and don't commit your life after only 4 months!! what is the rush?
2006-07-03 20:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kaeos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 months isn't long. I've been living with mine for 5 years and I'm still not sure about marriage.
2006-07-03 20:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by angelw/brkwingcrookedhalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck no, never ever. I'm sorry but the truth is painful. chances are neither of you can handle a real relationship that's why your on line. while little harts on your messenger are cute moving to a faraway place isn't, which one of you are planing to abandon their way of life? leave their family and friends, jobs, favorite places?.
2006-07-03 20:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by myamoreterno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, maybe you want to wait until marriage and spend some time learn about each other, Don't rush it. Good Luck!
2006-07-03 20:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, date first. i made that same mistake for a girl i knew for 23 years.
2006-07-03 20:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is real fast slow down it can last but this is way to soon to know if its real or just real hard work
2006-07-03 20:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋