i love him very much and we have 2 kids one is 7years and one i 1 yeaskindly let me no if he is going to change and we will be together because i can't live without him
2006-07-03 19:25:46 · 14 answers · asked by shubha c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We cannot give you assurance of that.
You should check to see if you are married by common law.
And, consider asking him to marry you.
2006-07-03 19:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason for marriages to fall apart. You both have to be willing to make a life long commitment with one another.
Part of that commitment is honesty and tolarence and communication. You have to know how to talk about sensitive matters without hurting the other person. If things do get out of hand you need to be willing to apologize to one another and forgive as well.
If you are both determined to be life long partners then things should be ok. Always remember live is no bed of roses. There will be a lot of hard times, but love will work it all out.
2006-07-04 02:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by sandra_k19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not tiring to preach to you or nothing but you can't love your husband more than your creator, and you have to stop thinking that you can't live without him because once he get whiffs of that then your in for a big surprise. You have two children to think about and if you loven him and still unhappy it's not gonna be good on those babies. you really can't worry about weather he's gonna change or not you have to leave that one in GODS hands hes the on;y one can change that. See people are seasonal and seasonal people are put he only for one reason to teach you something and that's how to love the right one the way you love him. But when you fall in love with a seasonal person that's why your world gets turned upside down. Maybe he wasn't the one for you to marry just the one to teach you how to love the one that GOD has in store for you!
2006-07-04 02:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl. If you think its going to work then it is. You sound strong and if you will it it will be. If you love him enough to have his babies then you already know the answer to your question.He probably wont ever change so you have to decide what youre going to deal with and what your not. Dont ever let him know you cant live without him because you give him all the control in the relationship. He must know you can do it without him and you are there because you choose to be, not because you have to be. Maybe he had a crappy childhood and is replaying mommy with you. Figure it out and find your and your childrens happiness.Good Luck and Godspeed.
2006-07-04 02:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by hipichick777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a really traditional type of guy he will try as hard as he can to keep the marriage until death. Most people nowadays Don't consider marriage the sacred institution that it used to be. I think you should find that out about him, instead of wondering how much he loves you. Feelings change, but commitment and values are what keep a marriage going.
2006-07-04 02:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can tell you that . You both married because you are in love. Work with that. You can only do the best you are able. nobody is perfect. Always be honest and talk a lot. Communication is the key. Best of Luck to you and your hubby.
2006-07-04 02:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the end it all boils down to communication . In a marriage the best thing is the ability for the couple to talk through their problems . develope that relationship with your husband.
2006-07-04 02:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound worry about your marriage. Just be as you are and love your husband and kids the way you did for the last 7 years.
2006-07-04 02:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by lara23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep on losing the confidence then something you dislike may happen..... Be positive and have confidence in yourself if you don't have confidence in your marriage. You are very negative and no one can predict your future as it really lies in your own hands.
2006-07-04 02:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be successful if both of you make sure to work together to build the relationship, so it can grow stronger & stronger.
2006-07-04 02:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋