Would you be with someone who you know loves you and treats you well, even if you arent that sexually attracted to them OR would you rather be with someone who you are totally sexually attracted to, but treats you bad?
2006-07-03 19:22:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'd have to chose the one who treats me good!
cuz, the person can learn different techniques to satisfy you (there are plenty of books that improves one's love life. IE: tantric sex, Kama sutra etc)
cuz if a person loves you and treats you well, (s)he'll find ways to spice up the love life to make you happy (that's cuz (s)he wont ignore the fact that (s)he is a bad lover. they are never too proud to admit that they are bad, and they find ways to make amends)
however, even if sex is wonderful, how long can you stand a person with sh!tty attitude? one who makes you feel like a worthless piece of shite every time after sex....
think about it......
2006-07-04 01:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Rainbow nation 3 · 9⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be with someone whom I know loves me for who I am, treats me like a lady, a friend and a partner, even if I'm not that sexually attracted to them. Beauty is only skin deep, long term relationships need more than lust to sustain themselves.
2006-07-04 02:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be with something that treats me well, however I would not probably date someone that I did not have some attraction to and this is not only physical but mentally stimulation also. I have been treated bad before, no need to do that one again.
2006-07-04 02:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by phaz7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty I am personally in the situation with the former and people say to us all the time ' I 'd give my right arm, to have what you guys have.' Obviously not realising that sexual part or lack of sexual attraction is so apparent. However if we are all honest good sex can count for alot!!!
2006-07-04 03:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be with the person that treated me well...and make the sexual attraction turn into something good...why go with the bad and live in misery!!!
2006-07-04 05:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by joy ride 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. I'm not going to be with someone I'm not attracted to or someone who wouldn't treat me right.
2006-07-04 03:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by holidayspice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither...I would be with someone who I am attracted to and who treated me very well.
2006-07-04 14:15:39 · answer #7 · answered by Holls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither - you need that "thing" to do anything that means anything. but to be honest id probly end up with the one that treats me bad but im attracted to. someone that id be proud to hold there hand in public, not embarresed because its a small town
2006-07-04 20:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by antibim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's better to be alone that being with someone who treat you bad....accepting abuses from another person reflects your own low self esteem and self respect....there's no benefit coming out of that relationship. the tough part is to break the cycle of getting into abusive relationship time and time again....
2006-07-04 08:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first one. Sexual attraction can be created, in my opinion.
2006-07-04 03:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋