ever since he went to his ex's hes been actin funny toward me like i don't matter so idk just tell me what u think i should do also hes always in jail for something
2006-07-03 19:18:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if he's always in jail and cheats half the time then he must be gay because they don't have coed jails.
2006-07-03 19:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a girlfriend who's partner was in jail. He was regularly having sex with 7 men who were in jail with him. He didn't regard this as cheating as it was with men! (huh??!! Isn't that worse than with a woman?) She met him in jail and after they had been going out for 4 weeks she cheated - this was the only time she did so in the 5 years he was inside. When he got out he beat the daylights out of her for cheating yet wouldn't take any responsibilty for his cheating. Do you want to be with a man who is always in jail? This doesn't leave you with much of a future does it? Especially if you are planning to have kids. How are you going to be able to set yourself up, buy a house and have a future with someone who is rarely there? You need to look after yourself. Don't be scared of his reaction - do whatever is best for YOU hunny. Go with your true gut feeling - its such terrifying thing to do but it's right. The only person who you can 100% rely on through life is yourself - you need to look after you and find a person who is going to treat you with respect, dignity, honesty and trust. You deserve the best - not a cheater who isn't even around half the time. Sorry if I sound bossy!! It just makes me sad that people are willing to throw their whole lives away for a loser who is just there for himself and doesn't give a **** about you. All of my partners have abused me mentally as well as physically, I've was raped repeatedly by a fiance, I've had everything I owned smashed to bits because of a partner's jealousy, my self esteem was so low it came out in China, I thought I was worth nothing - words cannot describe the hell I went through. I've been single for 8 years now - and I've honestly never been happier. I own my flat, I'm studying, I love who I am - I can walk with my head up high and it feels great.When you walk along, do you look at the ground or is your head up high? After watching the ground for 15 years, it feels wonderful to walk tall! Honestly hunny - look after yourself, because he sure as hell isn't going to by the sound of it. I hope everything works out for the best - whatever that is. Life is too short to waste. Take care xx ps: sorry for the novel!!
2006-07-04 02:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by ellyfantastic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AND THIS IS THE LIFESTYLE THAT HAS U CONCERNED. IF U R ASKING US WHAT SHOULD U DO IN THIS SITUATION THEN IT IS NOT US THAT U NEED. CHEATS, LIES, JAIL. MAKES U JUST AS MUCH A PART OF HIS ACTIONS AS HE IS. U R PUTTING UP WITH IT SO DONT ASK US ASK GOD.
2006-07-04 02:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by oaklandkc1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've got a bright future mapped out
2006-07-04 02:21:31 · answer #4 · answered by lefty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say that for you to put up with that crap you are either really stupid or have low self-esteem.
2006-07-04 02:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The village called, it wants its idiot back!
2006-07-04 09:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by Nadie0822 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new bf
2006-07-04 02:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by RCPR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋