Before the 3rd kid was born, we was have sex on a regular bases. Now the wife doesn't even want me touching her, not even a kiss goodnight or when I leave to go to work, nothing. PLEASE HELP!
2006-07-03 19:04:56 · 14 answers · asked by Raqi Killer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to your wife and express to her how you feel. Maybe she is just not feeling sexy. Make her feel sexy.
Tell her she is pretty or buy her something sexy. Oh and make sure if you don't know her size, buy it too small so she thinks you think of her as tiny. She will go nuts.
Take her out to dinner, then go to a romantic place and spend the night together just you to. Spice it up. But do it all to a surprise to her. Good Luck!
2006-07-03 19:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Poor girl she's probably tired dealing with 3 kids. She doesn't want you touching her because she doesn't want to have 4. If you haven't talked about some sort of consistent or permanent birth control methods maybe you should do so. If you both see eye to eye on what you want and another kid is not one of them that may help spice up the sex life. I wish you luck!
2006-07-04 02:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by bklyngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her time... I'm doing the same thing to my husband. First of all I'm more tired.. 3 kids are more work and the main reason is that I don't want to get pregnant again. She probably needs time for her self. be patient, but do let her know that she is still beautiful and you still love her and that you appreciate everything she does. She will come around. I am.
2006-07-04 02:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by Angie29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her for a drive and just pull over on a country road and pick her a flower. Watch the kids let her have her time. It will come back to you in the long run, Just do little things. THEY MEAN A GREAT DEAL!!!
2006-07-04 02:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by cowboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to talk to you wife about this. Maybe she feels like you are not attracted to her anymore. Maybe her hormone levels are off and she is not producing enough testosterone. You never know what it could be. If you don't communicate with her you will never know whats really going on.
*P.S.~Dont cheat on your wife or you could lose your family in the process. Its not worth it.
2006-07-04 02:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First Step: Ask her out and treat her like a lady.
Second Step;Tell Her she's the one your dreaming of.
Third Step; Take her in your arms and never let her go.
That's what I'd wont.Being a mother of three.Just a little R&R.
2006-07-04 02:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by lil-bit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is never the solution!! You need to talk to her....she is probably very tired from dealing with the kids...or afraid of another pregnancy.....talk it out and figure out what the deal is. My experience is if you don't expect it much, that's when you get more.....if you are hounding her about it.....its a turn off!
2006-07-04 02:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by caramelqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help her out around the house, surprise her with flowers, cook dinner for her, take her away on a surprise weekend. Do things that make her feel appreciated. I guarantee I would have more sex with my husband if he did all that for me!! lol
2006-07-04 02:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by bubba boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women need breaks from sex after childbirth. you can't keep her barefoot and preggy all the time. buy a rubber doll or something-lol. good luck.
2006-07-04 02:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yr wife for suitable answer.
2006-07-04 02:11:12 · answer #10 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋