I'm mexican and my man is black... everytime we go out where they are black girls... they always have something negative to say.. and they get mad.. the funny thing is that this people don't even know us at all!!!! Even he's baby momma hated me when she found out I was mexican... and i never crossed a word to this lady!!! Does anybody know why... and am I the only one going through this????
2006-07-03 18:44:10 · 10 answers · asked by M S 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Because some black people feel there are not enough good black men to go around for black women. It is really a narrow point of view because love has no color. I feel if you find love it doesn't matter what color the person is. However, when you have a mix-race relationship you must be willing and able to weather the fallout that comes with it. There are alot of narrow minded people who will throw alot of stuff your way. My father is black and married to a white woman. I love her. To me she's a person who loves my dad. If you love this man that means you care about his well-being. Always respect his baby's mother as such and don't feed into her negativity. As you hold your ground as a positive, respectful and balanced person in a trying situations who you really are will shine above what others think.
2006-07-03 19:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by n 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel that no race OWNS anybody. A lot of times most Black women feel as though something is being "taken away" from THEM, but the last time I checked, we were all human individuals able to make our own choices of whom we wanted to be with, so I see this mindset as just plain dumb and a waste of energy and most of the time, usually these are women that are going to remain single for awhile because they chose to limit themselves in the dating pool.
Interracial relationships, unfortunately, bring out the worst in ignorant people. I've experienced this myself, being a Black female who dates mostly White or Hispanic guys, but the most negativity I've recieved were from Black men and ironically from Black men who themselves were in interracial relationships! Go figure. But to be in a relationship as this, both parties have to be thick-skinned enough to be able to ignore stupidity and enjoy your relationship and each other.
2006-07-04 06:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by Q.S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity, the belief that Blacks should only date Blacks, ignorance, etc.
I applaud you for finding the man you love despite his race. I have no reason to hate you because you want to date inter-racially and many other Black women should believe the same.
2006-07-04 09:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by juun_yukiko 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm black and could care less who dates who.....its a free country.....and to each his own. I married a white man and some people had something to say about that....racism is still alive unfortunately, but as long as you're both happy....so be it! Forget what everyone else thinks!
2006-07-03 18:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by caramelqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure there are plenty of people going through this, there are always going to be people that feel that people should date outside of there race, that is there problem not yours.
2006-07-03 18:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
save on residing. you'll discover someone. no longer all men are ignorant. someone will like you for you. merely save livin. by utilizing the way whats with each and every of the black guy and the white guy and all that. you mustn't imagine like that. undergo in ideas, we are all human so be open. desire I helped. =]
2016-10-14 02:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anything I think it is because of their own insecurities or jealousy. I experienced the same from my black female friends when i married my wife who is Chinese.
2006-07-03 23:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by ronbacardi96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they think all their MARCUS(s) are gonna disappera and they wil have no one..and they feel betrayed..i love all races...my only issue is men on the dl and not finding a good man cuz all of them will b gay!
2006-07-04 21:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by orangepeel304 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, she may be white, but shes morbidly obese and speaks improper Ebonics.
2006-07-03 20:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by kool_rock_ski_stickem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word.
Insecure
2006-07-03 18:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by Rod B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋