I married this guy 5 month after we met on myspace. The 1st 2 months he was over seas in the military deployedment. We spoke every day over the phone for hrs. He had a 2 week vacation from Oct 26 to Sept 7 then he went back over seas. We thought that we love each other so we thought lets get married. But we never cared what his fam or my fam thought. Not even what our kids would go through. I have a 3 yr baby girl and he has 3 boys one 6,4,2. So me and his mom got 2gether and rented an apartment for when he arrive home on Jan 23,06. Me and him and my baby girl were going to mave in together. So then right when he got here we married. It was so nice the 1st month but then after a while he started to get mad about every thing. He exploded about little things. Then he began to hate my baby girl, he found bad things about her. After a while he got mad at me and he started to do drugs, bring dumb friends over to the aprtment. So fianly we separeted. But now I feel like I should have tryied.
2006-07-03 18:25:25 · 8 answers · asked by elliemagdaleno 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You really should get to know someone before you get married. You really did not know him, you did the right thing. Drugs are a bad way to run away from your problems. He is not very bright.
2006-07-03 18:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by cowboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a mistake. It is very scary to marry someone, when you really don't know the person. I mean you have to think about you and your child's safety.
Get a divorce ASAP. Next time don't marry anyone you meet on my space and second, take a longer time like more than two months to get to know someone before you marry them.
2006-07-03 18:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tried what? You don't need someone doing drugs around your three year old. You didn't know the guy well enough - you shoud give it a year or so to see them in all kinds of situations. But don't feel bad about getting out when it isn't good for you or your child.
2006-07-03 18:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by UpanishadMorning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, You need to get out as fast as you got into this marriage. You see I was in an abusive relationship and this is exactly what it sounds like you are heading for. It doesnt get better it just gets worse. Please get out before something really bad happens. Think of you baby girl. She doesnt need to be around this .
2006-07-03 18:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by im_his_ladymitsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to begin an answer for your Q. Not a diplomatic one anyway. If you have to ask whether a mistake was made, your future is guided by a bad totem, no...a totem possessed by the devil.
2006-07-03 18:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made a mistake marrying in the first place, not leaving, this wasn't even a real relationship let alone a marriage.
2006-07-03 18:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the relationship was doomed from the get go. you should have no regrets. sounds like the urge to marry overwhelmed you. the urge to divorce should not. good luck babe.
2006-07-03 18:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tried to do what? Wait for him to SHOW you how much he HATES your baby girl?
2006-07-03 18:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by cami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋