Well, Im a nice guy, and I treat all the girls with respect and I try to be a gentlemen. I dont plan on having sex until im married so im not just another guy wanting a one night relationship. The good looks wagon didnt pass me by either so Im just not sure anymore. Every time I like a girl and tell her she gets mad, ignores me, or just doesnt like me. Theres this girl I like right now and we are just friends, I told her I liked her a while back and she just got really pissed, we are friends again and I still like her but I dont think I will tell her. What am I doing wrong? What do you girls look for in a guy? BTW im 18
2006-07-03
18:19:34
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Im a funny person I try to take things easy. The girl that got mad at me was mad because we are friends and I asked her, I thought she liked me too by the way she acted but it turns out she didnt.
2006-07-03
18:40:34 ·
update #1
This is a very hard question to answer because I don't know you, and only know exactly what you wrote, but I'm going to give it a shot. First of all, I am a "nice girl," by most definitions, don't smoke, do drugs, have sex with random people, you get the picture. I have never had a problem with drinking, cursing like a sailor, and I know how to have fun, but regardless... all through high school I dated complete idiots who cheated on me, lied to me, lied to others about me, dumped me when I wouldn't have sex with them, the whole deal. But I loved these guys... because they were everything I wanted to be but knew better than, they were challenging, and I wanted to be the ONE girl who could tame them. My mom always told me I was the kind of girl that guys took home to their mom and married. I didn't want to be that kind of girl, or have that kind of guy.
Guess what though... I eventually grew up, matured a little, met the love of my life, who happens to be a very nice guy, probably "nicer" than me, and I'm happy with that. You are only 18. Give it some time. If you are as nice as you say you are, you just need to wait until girls realize that bad boys aren't as great as they seem to be. Good luck :)
2006-07-03 20:01:23
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answered by Stephanie 3
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Okay hunnie. I'm eighteen too and a girl, so take it from me.
What kind of person are you? I mean are you funny and what not?
Do you drink and smoke occasionally? Does it bother this girl if you do?
By saying that the "good looks wagon didn't pass you by," do you mean that you are repulsive to look at, or are just a little off but you will find someone to love you? I mean you really need to talk this all into considerstion. If you really likethis girl then just be nice to her and all that fun stuff that you say youslaredy do. If she has a boyfriend or whatever like that then you need to let her go. If not then sit her down or something like that and set boundries with her about whats going to happen and things like that.
Good luck!
2006-07-04 01:26:58
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answered by ABERCROMBiiE xx17 2
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Alright well there's a big difference between a v6 and a 4 cylinder. A v-6 has more HP to it, but with the 4 cylinder you're going to have better gas milage and more room for modifications. And yes, to answer your question you can supercharge a 4 cylinder.
2006-07-04 01:23:51
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answered by rsthoth2 1
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well you know what they say nice guys finish last. Girls for some reason like assholes.well some girls..you just havent found the girl who is looking for a sweet guy..give it time dont look for love let it find u
2006-07-04 01:25:40
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answered by Lilmisssassy 4
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Did you try to read those girls at all? Then again asking a question doesn't cost anything...so, no...i don't think you did anything wrong....other than asking the wrong person so far.
2006-07-04 01:32:18
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answered by justmemimi 6
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it sounds very odd that they all get "pissed" from you telling them yhou love them?
how are you telling them? what are you telling them? what words are you using? you must be saying something you dont realize and that hurts everybody.
check yr vocabulary
otherwise i dont know what else to tell you because i dont know all yr history or life and you are the one who has to anaylize so write it all down. and then read again what you wrote.
email it to yourself, waht you think of and do and say, and then re read it and see if there are clues as to what is wrong or what you are doing wrong.
2006-07-04 01:25:46
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answered by noteparece? 4
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choose different girls, ones that are showing signs they like you
2006-07-04 01:25:07
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answered by dappersmom 6
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