my wife is pregnant, and refuses to stop smoking and drinks at least 12 bottles of pepsi everyday. She talks?

Question

mad $hit about my ex (who i now regret leaving) and yells racial slurs at her from the car every time i go pick up my other children. she told me that if i ever leave her she will throw herself down the stairs and tell the police that i pushed her.....what do i do?

Answer 1

tell your ex about it and then tell the police and tell britney that she needs to get a life and it is over and you don't won't to be her husband anymore and then think of something really deep and tell her that you will sell her story if she doesn't stop and i knew brit was no good all along she used money to hook you and then she turned on you and does britney know about u being on answers and just to let you know i put time into this answer and i am probably your biggest fan on this website and you still don't choose me as your best answer o and if you ever leave britney i am always here i love you Kevin and you are right i was so mad at you when you left Shar o and tell britney to stop going on TV interviews and making a fool of herself cuz everybody in my city was talking about her o and can u send me pics of the baby he is so cute he must of got your genes and not britneys she is trash to me but that's your wife and you chose to marry her so good luck in everything you do Kevin
~Rachael~

Answer 2

It sounds like you need to get away from this woman now before she throws YOU down the stairs. She sounds very crazy to say the least. Do you and your ex-wife get along ok? Man, I never thought I would be saying this, but if you and your ex still have feels for each other, you might talk to her about you and her getting back together. But first before you do that, IF you can wait out this baby that is on its way, which I don't know how long it is going to be, see if she will change, unless she was like this before getting pregnant. If she was this way before, get away from her. If she wasn't like this before she got pregnant, then wait until after the baby is born and see if she changes any for the better. If she don't then get the heck out of Dodge. The reason I am saying this is because it could just be a chemical imbalance that she has from being pregnant, that does happen sometimes. Pregnancy does that to some women. Just remember, IF you do end up leaving her, do your fatherly duty and take care of that baby's needs, it is yours. God bless you and new to arrive baby.

Answer 3

Kevin, in one of your other questions, someone who answered your question told you to smack her etc... Your reply was "Done". How do you expect people to believe you didn't push her down the stairs when you're publicly admitting that you have hit her?

In your case, you need to have a visual security system with sound, in every room of your home. That will be the only saving grace you have should Britney decide to pull this stunt off.

Seriously, get yourself into some counseling Kevin and grow up, if Britney will go with you that would be a big plus, she too needs some therapy. If you must leave Britney at some point, your children will need a confident, loving, settled father to raise them. You need to start doing some planning and thinking ahead. Being a parent means being an unselfish individual.

I wish you well.

Answer 4

You certainly have serious problems with that relationship. Total danger zone; you've got to get out of it.

Try to record her threatening that, in hopes that it helps your defense if it ever happens. But good luck with that cause they ain't going to believe it unless you have a video tape of it. And even then, you better not have been the one who actually did it.

I say, find a way to get out of it without getting into problems. If you can get back with your ex that would be an idea cause a woman can help you against another woman with the law. However, any other woman will do for that. Even moving in with a family member that can witness any confrontation with you and her would be a way out.

Forget about the kid, forget about everything, cause it's going to be worse if you stay. You take care of your responsibilities afterwords.

Good luck with that great escape.

Answer 5

Oh dear.... i feel so sorry for you, she really needs help, she's probably acting like that cause she knows you are sorry you left your ex... If I were you I would tell the cops about her threat,, tell lots of people, and leave her when someone else is present so in case she does do something dumb, you can't be blamed, but it's probably just a threat, but with someone unstable like her better to be safe than sorry. If you do leave her, please just don;t run back to your ex, give yourself time to really sort yourself out, feelings are always so screwed up after breaks ups, you can;t rely on someone else to make you happy, or if you decide to stay and try and help your gf , be firm and strong,and don't play mind games or make threats back at her.. help her , suggest counselling , gotta try and save it cause u must of loved her once. All the best.You can't force a person to give up addictions over night either, be gentle and encourage her to cut down not just for babys sake but for her sake too. If you go off at her about it she's just going to do it more to P#ss you off. Do baby more harm than good if she were to just quit , cause of withdrawels and she would be even crankier.

Answer 6

I had the same problem. My wife wouldn;t stop smoking. It drove me crazy. Your choices are limited at this point. If you divorce her and the child is born then you will pay 20% of your net income forever. Despite the sad fact that your child will forever be forced to choose between Mom and Dad and have to endure the scourage of divorce. My advice is try to educate her..tell her that caffene and nicotine cross the placenta and can casue problems etc. But I would at all cost try and salvage the marriage.

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Answer 7

When you know your ready to leave dont tell her then you should call a cop and tell them the situation and see if an officer can be there to watch you. Dont tell her until the officer is there so she cant do that and never be alone with her after. She obviously needs help and you shouldnt be with her if shes like that. She could hurt you or her self. shes not in the right state of mind and you should leave as quickly as you can.

Answer 8

Oh joy, the psycho ex who threatens the life of an unborn child, and yours at that. What a freakin' loser!!!Mental Issues,hhmmmm?
I know there is simply nothing you can do but stay away for your own rear's sake. You are powerless over the situation here and she will soon discover that you are not the puppet she wanted you to be. Be tough...look out for yourself.
Pray!
Good luck cutie.

Answer 9

I think that you need to leave her and right now - yes she may be pregnant with your baby although you do not need to put up with that sh*t from anyone.

She will not throw herself down the stairs - I doubt that she has the balls to do it!

Go and find a woman who will enjoy your company and want to spend time with you.

Don't let yourself be forced to stay in an unhealthy relationship - that is no way to raise kids!

Good Luck!

Answer 10

Dear kevin!! I would say follow your heart . But in this case I would advise you to set your priority's first and those priority's are your children. I personally have been in that situation but on the opposite side. I am the ex. my children have been hurt because they are not their fathers priority. second i would talk to a detective in the police department. you are being emotionally
abused and that is the same if you would take a punch. I wish this helps a bit