Orgasms???

Question

I am 33 and divorced with 3 kids. I have never had luck with orgasms (maybe 10 in my life) Any suggestions on what may help, was thinking maybe muscle relaxers?

Answer 1

Just like everyone has a different favorite color, everyone has their own technique that works for them.

You will have to keep experimenting until you find the thing that works best for you.

Some basic pointers – a vibrator usually helps a LOT – and not thinking about having an orgasm is essential – you can’t force it – keep thinking about whatever your fantasy is and it will happen.

Quit trying so hard.

I am serious - when you focus on trying to have an orgasm - you never will. When you just play, and enjoy yourself, and stick with whatever fantasy you are having - you will be there in no time.

Answer 2

To make a girl orgasm, finger the G spot furiously (or use a G spot toy), masturbate the clit fast at the same time (like rub a powerful vibrator body massager on your clit at the same time). Maybe have an object in her a-nus (a turn on by women). You have to be horn*y in order for the orgasm to work, so you may want to incorporate goat weed or any good aphrodisiac (a sexual libido enhancer, NOT Viagra or "size pills") . The G-spot is on the top inside of the vagina. Curve your fingers up when fing*ring. For a libido enhancer, try http://www.directvideoanddvd.com/listcategory_toys.asp. Maybe pop in a porno. Girls love when you rub the inside of her thigh(s) while you do this. [for the guys to do]

Answer 3

A man who loves you and is patient and explores your sexual feelings with you in a non-rushed and comfortable way is what you need. Drugs aren't going to help.

Best wishes and God bless.

Answer 4

Are you talking about orgasma with masterbation or with actual intercourse?

Answer 5

do you masturbate? If you don't you should, you can almost teach yourself how to get off.

Answer 6

what are orgasms!!!