my wife suddenly change her mind n say we dont divorce but separate 1st, she keep asking me to buy things for her (just like the day we were fine) n wan to use the internet to chat with the guy she know thur msn ( because of the guy she wan to divorce). i told her i feel unfair and i feel like a fool. she give me hope n she keep doing things that i feel unfair to me. what can i do? we been marriage for 8 years with 2 kids, i really dont know what she wan cause i ask she dont reply, did i do anything wrong by stoping her? help me pls..........
2006-07-03 17:44:23 · 12 answers · asked by Andy Heckmen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like a little taste of the cake and eat it to bit.
She has you by the balls.
Quit acting like you care so much and even if you have to pretend, do not give her so much attention.
She knows what she is doing and continues to run things. Who is running that house anyway? Button your pants, get down to business and read from the bible in Proverbs the verses on the Proverbs wife to her. Then ask her what she would like to do. This is her problem, not you.
Let her rebel and pay for the price of it all later on You are safe .
Think about those babes
Be there for them and appreciate them for who they are regardless of the jackass their mother is being.
Some are sicker than others!!!huh?
Good luck with the marriage.
2006-07-03 17:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your wife is fooling you and playing with you. Don't allow this to happen. It is obvious that she doesn't care for your 8-year marriage and didn't even consider the interests of your two kids. She is not faithful to you and she is doing that in front of you? Man, you need to think wisely. She is taking advantage of your kindness. If I were you, I'm gonna leave her and divorce. I also experienced how to be treated like that by a former boyfriend. At first, I was really scared to leave him because I am scared that I could not live without him. I am scared that I could not handle it and could not stand on my own. But you know what, I'm glad that I finally got the courage to leave him and I did. Now I am happily married with the best man there is in this world. You can do it too, good luck. You deserve to have someone better and you deserve to be happy. Don't let your life live like a hell. It is a matter of choice between mesiry and happiness... choose wisely.
2006-07-03 18:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by sweethonesty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she's playing you. Why should she get a divorce when she's got the other guy online and you in back paying for what she wants? You sound like the honest type and she sounds like she doesn't deserve you. Give her an ultimatum- you or him. If she chooses the other guy, move on and find a girl to appreciate you more than she does......
2006-07-03 17:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by daddysnurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just end the relationship just because something has lasted for years doesnt mean its good for u, maybe you r just used to her and comfortable with her. She is dogging you and u have to be strong and truthfull with yourself and ask ur self the tough questions like, " DO I deserve to be misreable, do I deserve to be treated badly?" . She is just stringing u along getting whatever she can get from u, until she decides its ood for her to leave u. I know u have kids, but its best for their parents to be seperated or divorced than together and unhappy because it will effect them. But you know the truth about her intent, u know if ur being a fool.
2006-07-03 17:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 04:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I don't know you but by the way it sounds, you can do better! If she just sitting around talking to this guy on the internet and just using you for all the things she wants and needs, then you need to get out of this relationship! Sure what shes doing is leading you on, thats what she wants!!! Just get out while you can!
2006-07-03 17:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by brittanyj05cm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HER, MAN!!! 8 years and 2 kids... and you still don\t know your wife, in and out?!!!
chatting thru the internet, with no valid explanation to your querries... boy, there is something fishy here.
don't be a fool!!! it's your life, the one who needs to enjoy it i suppose to be YOU... not OTHER PEOPLE!
2006-07-03 17:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by Ross 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
QUIT PAYING HER BILLS AND KICK HER FREELOADING NO GOOD GOLD DIGGIN *** TO THE CURB....DONT GO BROKE OVER HER....TAKE HER TO COURT AND REAM HER *** FOR SOME ALIMONY AND CHILD SUPPORT TOO....
IM SICK OF THESE NO GOOD WOMEN WANTING TO BE SOOO LAZY AND NOT DO A DAMN THING AND STILL GET TAKEN CARE OF...
TELL HER TO GET A JOB AND PAY FOR HER OWN THINGS AND HER OWN INTERNET....
CUT HER OFF MAN BEFORE SHE HAS YOU BY THE BALLS
2006-07-03 17:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by meld1707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why spend money on her. Be brave and divorce with her is all I can tell you to do.
2006-07-04 00:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, buddy....ur a fool.....throw her out with yesterday's trash, unless she's willing to change.....and go to counseling....
2006-07-03 17:56:55 · answer #10 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋