How do we get along?

Question

if a couple is in a relationship and we have a baby together and one on the way and we have some problems getting along with each, what should we do to make our relationship work?

Answer 1

Take a coffee can with the plastic lid, cut a slot in the top. Use little pieces of paper to write one thing that you like about your bf/gf/spouse. Have date night once a week. Even if it is just an hour or two while the little one has gone to bed, just spend time with him/her. You can always go to counseling. You just have to find new ways to remind each other why you fell in love with each other in the first place.

Answer 2

I remember those days when my kids were small. To raise young ones is very time consuming and tiring along with daily life, work, bills etc.all worth it but, i think where couples go wrong and we all did is, not taking time out for each other. A date night , something where if you can just , be together, like the old days as we say. Why not? what would it hurt to have these dates religiously as much as you can , but nothing less than, at least once a month. Don't make it complicated where it might be $$$ or expect too much, or anything that might stop the dates before they start.Going back to the dating is gonna take time, but could be alot fun, and worth it. It might be what you need. In order for our kids to experience our happiness as a "mom and dad" we have to keep the" mom and dad "going as a couple, as friends. Passion shouldn't be a memory, just because we have kids.
re create it, together. I don't know if this makes sense. Good luck to you.

Answer 3

Everytime u guys have a disagreement. Talk it out. If it's not possible to do it rationally, and u don't want to yell at each other, take a break for a while, but ALWAYS talk it out. don't go to bed angry, cuz one day ruined is better than two. If u guys can't solve it urselves, get counseling, and if nothing u do helps, and it just isn't working(I don't think this is the case), then split. It's better than staying for the kids and being miserable all the time...they can sense it, and it will affect them adversely for the rest of their lives.

Answer 4

Stop having babies. If the relationship has problems having more children isn't going to make it better and it's not fair to the children. If you want this relationship to work, get into therapy.

Answer 5

You have to stop bickering and fighting especially over little stuff and have fun together again like I know you probably used to. Learn how to love each other and respect each other as people and if that's not good enough, see a therapist or a counselor.

Answer 6

DEAR SISTER LIFE IS THAT WHAT WE MAKE . GIVE AND TAKE IN PLENTY THE LOVE . MAY BE YOU WILL HAVE DIFFERENCE OF OPINION ABOUT A MATTER WHERE AS WHERE IS THE DIFFERENCE IN YOU BOTH SINCE YOU BOTH ARE MADE FOR EACH OTHER.ALWAYS BE CAREFUL IN NOT WOUNDING OR INSULTING THE STATUS OR THE MIND OF YOUR PARTNER IN ANY SITUATION. IF AT ALL YOU DO PLEASE NEVER FORGET TO APOLOGISE FOR YOUR HIGH HANDEDNESS AND MAKE HIM UNDERSTAND TO HAVE A TOGETHERNESS WITH YOU IN EVERYTHING.EATING FOOD GOING FOR A WALK SLEEPING TOGETHER AND ENJOYING ANYTHING TOGETHER.TOGETHERNESS DOES THE MIRACLE IN BINDING THE DIFFERENCES AND IT ALWAYS BRIDGE THE GAP.DO NOT ARGUE FOR ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING BE HUMBLE AND CARING. THE LOST GOLDEN DAYS WILL START REAPPEARING IN YOUR LIFE AS WELL AS YOU WILL REGAIN THE LOST KINGDOM. IF YOU WANT TO KNOW ANYTHING MORE PLEASE DO NOT HESITATE TO ASK ME OPENLY THROUGH YAHOO.
GOOD LUCK.

Answer 7

Start listening to each other and not take offense at what the other one has to say. Learn to compromise so you both get what you want. Believe me, that's the only way. Good luck and congrats.

Answer 8

talk it over without any third party being involved.

Best is to compromise on any differences mutually, never take harsh step of ending the relationship.

this will only further your agony thru'out your remaining life

Answer 9

Talk to eachother, opening about what you expect from this relationship, what you are willing to give and to sacrifice. What you mean to eachother. Listen to eachother, compliment eachother, be patient, be open to the good and the bad times and always know that whatever happens, YOU"VE GOT EACHOTHERS BACK!!!! Good luck XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Answer 10

Sit down and have a talk with each other. Tell him all the things that bother you and have him work on changing those things, and have him tell you all the things that are bothering him and you work on changing those things.