2006-07-03 17:07:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i've been attempting to plan a surprise 21st bday party for my bf, ive been busting my *** and really i know he'd never do it for me. instead he's been unintentionally making this difficult and I look like the bad guy. ANNND for the past 2 months hes been such a jerk with comments such as "keep up with ur bs and we wont have to worry about august" bc he had promised me to keep that weekend open and then tried planning a car show for that day so i had to yell at him to get him not to do n e thing since he promised! and then invited me out to go swimming with friends and said he'd call me after work and never called and then wondered why i was mad and said it was stupid when i called and told him he forgot about me! grrr.
2006-07-03 17:32:39 · update #1
It's only difficult when you aren't supposed to be in that relationship. Give him the boot babe. Find someone that will make you happier. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXxxx
2006-07-03 17:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of good advice from others but the bottom line.......
When you discover the one you truly want to be with is nothing more than a friend. I LIKE my boyfriend and he LIKES me. We enjoy doing things together and respect each other. Love well what is love I love chocolate ice cream. The secret find a partner you like you will he surprised how much of a positive influence this has on your relationship.
2006-07-03 18:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys, like many girls, dont know what they want. They may want a gf but they dont want to deal with all the things that go along with having a gf. And we as girls may expect more from a guy than he is willing to give. We have all these hopes and dreams of how our relationships are going to turn out and the guy may just be around to get laid.
2006-07-03 17:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not... the difficulty comes when you pretend to be someone else and are consumed by this obsession to have a boyfriend, make friends instead, you'll be surprised how many boys will want to be your boyfriends... give them something to relate to! I guess growing up with brothers helps
guys are not as hard to figure out, c'mon we're women here, you can have them wrapped around your pinkie if u wanted to!
2006-07-03 17:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys lie.
boys cheat.
boys say things
they dont mean.
boys break hearts.
boys will always cheat on you.
boys use you for sex.
boys use you for money.
boys will say they love you,
but never mean it.
boys will always flirt with other girls,
even when you are with them.
boys will be fake.
boys will say they are sorry,
just so you will forget about it.
boys will make you cry over them.
boys will do things they promise they
would never do.
boys will always be fake.
face it boys, thats just how you are...
2006-07-03 17:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by Nirvana Chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If having a boyfriend is difficult to you...
then you sure don't want to get married!
2006-07-03 17:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by photoguy1959 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be. Every couple has their moments. Just not all the time. There has to be more good than bad.
2006-07-03 17:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm i was wonder the same but opposite thing why are women so difficult, lol it time to move on.
2006-07-03 17:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men are hard to please......some of them, anyway....if you're dating a real man, its not really that difficult at all...
2006-07-03 17:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause life is difficult... people only stay together cause they are always working at their relationship.. you don't just run away when things get tough.. handle it...lol
2006-07-03 17:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋