my friend is a year older than me and always ditches me for her other friedns her age or older or is a total brat to me i dont know what to do should i tell her or should i just put up with it like i have for about 5 yrs
2006-07-03 16:55:36 · 12 answers · asked by pintohurt2012 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to her about it. Tell her how it hurts your feelings. If she doesn't care then she can't be much of a friend.
2006-07-03 16:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sunflower 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not have to put up with that kind of rubbish. You should stand up for yourself never let anyone treat you that way it doesn't matter if you lose her as a friend she's not worth it. If you let her do this she will always be able to walk over you which really isn't fair. No matter what never ever keep everything deep inside because then it will just hurt you even more just tell her how you feel.
2006-07-04 02:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by ~walking_on_a_dream~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion that isn't a friend. You should look up friend in the dictionary and I think you'll find that she doesn't fit the description. I know you have been friends for a long time, but sometimes you have to do things for yourself. Stop living your life through her and make yourself happy! I just lost a best friend of 10 years by choice, It sucked but I had to do it for MYSELF!
2006-07-04 00:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by helana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put up with it. Have some selfrespect. My wife and I have either cut ties completely or, at least, have cooled off friendships with others who were treating us the same way, and thought they could do so because we "needed" their friendship.
Tell your friend that if she was truly your friend, she would not treat you that way. If she gets a stick up her *** over it, then it tells you that she does not think as highly of you as you do of her. Friendship does not have a pecking order!!!! Beleive me honey, I learned that one the hard way!!!
2006-07-04 00:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should start hanging out with your own friends and if she wants to hang out with you tell her that you are busy doing things with your real friends.k.seeya oh and don't feel bad when she starts talkind s***t about u cause u know u did the right thing.
2006-07-04 00:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why r u still hanging around with her. she is treating u as a stopgap. leave her & find some other sincere friends.be friendly with your old friend but don't hang aound her . let her feel youe absence .
2006-07-04 00:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, if she was your friend she wouldent do that, make her realize she is making you not want to be around her, distance yourself from here, and if things don't change drop her like she has you.
2006-07-04 00:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by Little Mamma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answer your own question.
No. Find a real friend and stop settling for leftovers.
2006-07-03 23:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by kishoti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on from the ignorance.
2006-07-03 23:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start hanging out with your ither friends, then when she wants to be around you, tell her you are busy with your real friends.
2006-07-03 23:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋