well, if you start dating a guy and you're seen around town together, that would be another dead giveaway (other than ur bracelets)
i dunno when my friend came out he just told everyone, he was so open about it and it made him feel even more comfortable with his sexuality
2006-07-03 16:52:06
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answered by Anonymous
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I think informing people you are gay should be on a need to know basis Im not saying you should be "DL" or in the closet you can be out and comfortable with yourself without shouting it to the world I am a gay person and mostly everyone who knows me knows I am but at the same time when I introduce myself I dont say Hi Im Brock and Im gay just let being gay be like any other part of your life
2006-07-03 16:53:37
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answered by Brock C 3
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You see a chick you like go up to he and talk to her and there. Tell people and go to a gay club or bar.If you are a guy well that's so easy there is this street down the street where I live and there is nothing but gay dudes partying all night and it be lit up it's nice and there is chicks too.It is called Cedar Springs. Thats where people can tell if your gay you will see a lot of rainbows trust me i'm bi.
2006-07-04 20:00:10
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answered by Hotmom1216 3
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Do you really need to? I tend to show my pride by drawing my little pictures and wearing my rainbow bracelet and a few subtle hints (such as Sailor Venus, the apparently 'most lesbianist' of the Sailor scouts, as my friend called her).
If you must, then wear something like "I'm a real man's man" or something somewhat subtle but funny. = ) Again, this is not necessary; I'd even say avoid it if you go to an unknown area, or a defitinely gay-unfriendly; just to be safe. Same with bosses, unless you know it's okay with them, and with the customers/coworkers.
Being gay is just like being, oh, I dunno, an artist. Not truly necessary to know to enjoy the person's company, not really immediately noticable, but as you become associates/friends/closer, it's simply another thing to be learnt.
I wish I knew more people who were so proud in being gay. ^_^;; I know -one- person who is very out and is happy being such, other than me. Everyone else is like "Yeaaaaah...maybe." Even my girlfriend. XD
2006-07-04 22:18:08
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answered by Kage D, 2
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Get a shirt printed "I am gay"
but why, if you are, you are, do people who are celebrate go around with a sign telling everyone, Do non gays go aroiund with a sign saying they are?
Please understand there is still a large percentage of the American public that does not accept this as a normal and proper life style, So you can expect if you wish to proclaim it to the world, that many will not be as happy for you, as you believe.
2006-07-03 16:53:56
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answered by Anonymous
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While I don't feel the need to say, "Hey world, I'm heterosexual" , most people would assume I am, but they are strangers and I wouldn't have the need to tell them something personal unless I
wanted a much friendlier association. Stop and think, 'how silly it sounds to tell people; "Hi, I'm gay, see my bracelet!".
Why the need to advertise? If you make an effort to be comfortable with your sexual orientation you won't feel the need to make a big deal about it.
2006-07-04 04:30:16
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answered by Anonymous
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You can always say something, stand up for GLBTQ issues (this doesn't make you gay but it shows you can be asked about the issue, gets people talking), be proud of who you are, and help others to be proud also. Mostly just be yourself.
There is always that tattoo across the forhead thing, but it's SO last year. LOL.
2006-07-03 18:02:17
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answered by MindStorm 6
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It's really no one's business what your sexual orientation is except for the one with which you're trying to develop a relationship. Anyway, if the feel the whole world must know, I suppose you should just get you a shirt with "I'M GAY and I DON'T MEAN MAYBE, BABY" posted in large print.
2006-07-03 17:35:27
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answered by will 4
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blurting out you are gay is inappropriate in most situations. If it's important to you don't hide it, but there isn't any point to shoving it in peoples faces, either. That doesn't make you much different than the religious nut or the saleman who pounces on you after you've crossed the threshold of a store.
2006-07-03 16:52:20
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answered by Anonymous
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(I'm guessing you're femme.) I've got a good friend who says she's "Invisible to her own community." She wears bracelets, necklaces, all kinds of stuff. She makes no secret about her preference. But what helps is attending things within the gay & lesbian community. Learn who they are, where they go, and what they do. "Network"
Good Luck
2006-07-03 16:54:48
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answered by mcdane01 4
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I suggest one of those sandwich signs advertisers use to pay some guy to wear around saying "eat at Joes" or the like
Yea, a big sign that says "I am gay".
Of course, nobody really cares what you are, so it is unlikely you will make much of a stir.
2006-07-03 16:52:21
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answered by enginerd 6
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