I'm having an affair with a married man and I don't feel bad about it.?

Question

Is that wrong?

Answer 1

I can't believe some of the others are blaming you but not him..it takes two. I've been seeing a married man for seven years, he says he loves me, he will leave her someday. (no I don't believe him), but the sex is the best i've ever had. She should try it sometimes and maybe he would stay home. Until then, i'll continue to be the one that satisfies him....I don't feel bad either...

Answer 2

Just remember you are the one who asked "is that wrong?". Well you not feeling bad about the affair is obviously not wrong for you. Unless you are also married to someone else, you did not make any commitment to the woman of the man you are sleeping with. You are not breaking a commitment. However, a person with empathy would not be the other woman because you know the hurt will be intense if the affair is discovered. If this affair is just about sex to you and you are willing to deal with the consequences in the end then that is what it is. If this is someone you are thinking about staying with you are just plain crazy. There are 2 kinds of people cheaters and not-cheaters. If he is cheating on her, he will cheat on you. Do not lie to yourself and say you are different. A bad wife does not make her husband cheat. A cheater finds or makes up a flaw in their partner so that they can justify cheating to themselves. This is just the way it is.

Answer 3

I got something to say here and I don't give a rats nest if any of you women here gets mad at me for saying this either. I don't aprove of any of you women that thinks it is funny or ok or what ever to have an affair with a married man. It is wrong any way you want to look at it, you all make me so sick!!!!!! Now for some of you out there that does this and says "Oh there had to be something going on at home that he wasn't happy with or was missing or not getting something". Well let me say this to all you women that think that. I got a divorce because of your kind, trashy women!! My man had everything at home that you could possible imagine. I made love to him every night, did everything and any thing for him. I cooked and cleaned, I treated that man like I little king. I went above and beyond my duty as a wife to him. Then here come a little tramp along, wagging her *** is his face and poof he was gone. We got a divorce, him and her didn't last very long at all, he came crawling back to me saying he was so sorry and didn't know what came over him. No I didn't take him back either. He lost it all because he just had to have that piece of *** that he didn't think he could live without. He said that I was sooooooo good to him and had no ideal why he did it, that he had everything in the world that he could possible need right there with me and blew it. So you womem out there that think you are so smart and so proud of what you are doing with these husbands, I hope that you will enjoy your selves to the hilt, because the reason you have to get our men is cause you can't find one of your own, you have already been labeled as a two bit whore and NO decent man is going to want your type for a WIFE!!!!!!

Answer 4

Let me tell you a little something about messing with a married man, DONT!! The wife could , No WILL be you someday. And when it is you that is being cheated on, it will hurt like hell.My x was married when we first started messing around, I didn't feel bad about it either because he talked so bad about her, I really thought she was a bad person and I was rescuing this great guy. Well, now I am the wife and I know what its like to be on the other side. IT SUCKS. If you are doing it just because, quit now, if you are doing it because you really care about each other... wait until he is divorced.. don't mess with another woman's man. You wouldn't want someone to mess with your man!! Have a little respect, always remember it could be you!!

Answer 5

Morally, yes it is wrong but i cannot judge you because i had an affair with a married man once and i justified it by believing that because i was alone and lonely and because he was not happy with his wife it was ok...But I know it was wrong and I have since apologized to him and his wife...At the time he made me feel so alive and so desirable and loved...but looking back now i realize that he was using me...

Answer 6

Ask your self a very simple question. Am I doing the right thing? Of course the answer is no and you don't feel bad about it because.........you probably never really thought about how you are going to feel when this slob of a man does it to you. Thats the easy one..how about the day it all falls apart and you have only yourself to face in the mirror when he goes back to his wife for the upteen time or you are spending yet another christmas alone. Wake up girl....

Answer 7

I had an affair and made some lives misreable when I was young. He left his wife and we carried on like idiots. Well. 10 years later he had another affair on me. I ended dirt poor on welfare and raised our 2 children alone.
My kids lives are permanently screwed up. I have a daughter out of control, and a son with no dad.
THINK ABOUT WHAT YOUR DOING?

Answer 8

Well I guess you don't feel bad about it, if you have no morals to begin with how could you feel bad.. And it does not matter who started it, it takes two to do the deed, I hope that one day i can answer the same question for the woman who is sleeping with your husband.....How can you even feel good about yourself?? Do you not think you deserve more in a relationship??? Do you think you are rescuing him from his monster wife?? Don't worry, there will be another whore waiting around the corner to rescue him from you!!

Answer 9

It's very wrong and you know this. That's why you're trying to see if anyone will agree with you.

You're setting yourself up for a big disappointment. If the shoe was on the other foot you would feel so much and pain.

Answer 10

Yes I should think so. First off you have poor choice in men if you are going after ones who aren't loyal to the person they LOVE. What do you expect from him for yourself. Are you something special that you aren't replacable? Get some esteem and get yourself a man who doesn't already belong to someone else.