when my girlfriend and i broke up a couple months ago i was devastated, then we got back together and i realized she didnt do anything wrong. but i got extremely depressed and rageful, i wanted revenge so i picked fights with people over the web, not they are harassing me threatening me with knives and stuff, so if anyone has an idea to stop this crap before i get hurt (i dont want to fight) i really need help because i am very scared
2006-07-03 16:38:46 · 49 answers · asked by oderin 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Dude, we all make mistake. Realizing that you were wrong is a big step in the right direction. Just tell them you were alittle out of control and tell them you're sorry. I've run into a few people in here that made my blood boil but it's only the internet and chances are you'll never run into these people anyway.
2006-07-18 08:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by The Mick "7" 7 · 18⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've read some good answers, so I can really only echo most of what's been said.
1. You should apologize to those whom you've offended.
2. You should change your ID's, maybe even quit the site(s) altogether.
3. Here's a tough one. If you haven't broken up with your girl friend again, you should consider not seeing her for awhile, at least until you've sorted some things out. Be honest with her about this.
4. You should seek some counseling. It sounds like you have an anger management problem. If you can't afford a psychiatrist, you can talk to a minister, priest or rabbi. Even a close, trusted friend or relative is better than nothing.
5. Do not attempt to self-medicate with alcohol or drugs. They'll do more harm than good.
6. If, at any time, you truly believe that you or your loved ones are in danger, call the police.
2006-07-18 17:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by WillyC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to the people on the web and tell them you were just upset. (Because you felt rejected by a girl) that's how a lot of fights start. then, talk things over with someone you trust about why you felt so insecure. Perhaps see a counselor or pastor. Do you have friends, parents who can help you?
2006-07-03 16:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you happy that you got back together? My hubby and I broke up for 8 months once, and we vowed we would change for the better. We had to let things go from the past, and move on now. Things are going great. So, what's up with you? Don't you really love this girl? If you do, get over the past and move on. Be happy with what you have NOW! Good luck to you my friend.
2006-07-19 07:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one thing: that was a very stupid thing to do on the Internet.
Number two: stay off the Internet for a month or two but keep reading what's going on by using a public computer lab or the library to keep track what is said. And never do that again.
2006-07-18 06:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by wolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stop picking fights!
You pick fights then are upset when people stand up for themselves?
Stop harassing them, admit you were in the wrong and apologize.
2006-07-03 16:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by smukers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to resolve your anger with the source of your anger, go see a psychiatrist or a counsellor because anger management shoud be your solution. If left unmanaged, you might do something you'll regret the rest of your life. Lastly, pray for inner peace, build a relationship with God or any God for that matter as long as its not the devil.
2006-07-17 22:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a cowardly little man and maybe you do need to get beaten up. You and people like you want to start talking trash and then get someone else to clean up your messes. You should either stand up, be a man, and take your medicine.Or you should just kill yourself. You are worthless to the entire community, and probably, an embarrassment to your family.
By the way, I talk **** but I back it up. e-mail me and I'll give you my location. Hell I'm a trucker I can probably come to you.
2006-07-18 09:23:58 · answer #8 · answered by darkangel_29_1999 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? You are an idiot. How exactly is somebody going to "get" you with a knife through a computer? And if you didn't want to fight, you shouldn't have provoked crazy strangers.......claim responsibility for your own actions, too - this is in NO way your girlfriends fault. I am scared for HER!
2006-07-18 06:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by Fortune Favors the Brave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, the internet is so easy to git rid of unwanted people. all u have to do is change ur email address/ or im that u are being hurrased under. why keep an e mail open just so people who dont like u can hurrass you. seems like u might like it. dosent take a brain surgond to erace a e mail address.
2006-07-19 08:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋