why do we act so shady towards each other?
Why do they call "dibs" on guys?
I have a "friend" (at least she was) that trys to compete with me when it comes to guys. She's tried to take or steal guys that i have liked, she even gone as far to sleep with them to get them, its f"ked up.
I dont choose guys over my friends, She f'"ked a good friendship up, now i dont trust her.
What would posses someone to act like that. now i look at her like she's a vindictive liar who cant stand to see anyone happy.
Someone explain this to me. please
2006-07-03 16:35:00 · 15 answers · asked by flo 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
If she had anything going on for her like a decent job or some brain cells, she wouldn't need to steal a man to feel important. How pathetic is that? By the way, though, the men involved have some say in it. They aren't much better than she is is they are choosing to sleep with her. It's not like she is drugging these men.
2006-07-03 16:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question as it appears has got the answer. You are a girl but..... is the situation which needs to be corrected in a manner you desire.
Since you have asked, why do we act so shady towards each other, the word 'we' includes you also and as such you should know better why you act so shady!
Who call 'dibs' on guys? Who are 'they'?
Your narration of having a friend with specifically mentioning (at least she was) could easily clarify the situation and your conclusion, if for sincere and actual that now you don't trust her, could be the best alterate to resolve your instant scenario of all these unpleasantries, I think. Cut of her from you!
No one can explain, but you can only decide on the matter duly reviewing all the progression of the matter. Good luck!
2006-07-03 16:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money and girls are the test of friendship. I have own experience and agreed with your opinion but I want to say something more.
If we look at our family members we can see that everybody is different. Because of our different DNA.
Same like this our friends they are not same as we are. They don't think or act as we do. If you know this your anger will be reduced.
Now your friend who steal or sleep with your friends but you can not do the same to your friend. It mean you know what is friendship and what is good or bad. There are some people they don't care about others they just want to get what they want. They don't think how they can hurt other even their best friends. Their end is not good one day their close friend left them.
But you should remember it has proved that we are what we think. You keep doing good things and you will get good in your life. Because of some bad people do not leave your good habit.
I am sure one day you will see what will happen to one of your friend who steal and sleep with your friend.
You are good person keep doing good. Pray for your friend. I am sure this is what we can do to others. Are we same like them? NO.
nihon94@yhoo.com
2006-07-03 16:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ari 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This world is about getting on the top. But sometime we are so willing to get everything and to get on the top that we forget, where we belong!
She cheated on you, backstabbed you f"ked up your people!
Just f"ck her off and move over. If you are emotional about her than try make your image clear to everyone. Try tell every one that they can't just mess with ya like that. Change your body language.
And believe me changing body language doen't mean changing yourself!
And this not gonna affect the attitude of the people who treasure you! They'll still love you!
Wish you good friends!
2006-07-03 16:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by mikey j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls think everything should be a competition and so called friends try to ruin what you have bc they are jealous. I know this from experience. Almost every girl around where I live has tried to come between me and my fiance bc I have what they want. Some of them even have bfs but they don't have what me and my fiance have so they try to ruin it. Girls like this need to grow up and take a step back and look at whats going on.If she did that to you she's not worth being your friend.
2006-07-03 16:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by *Michelle* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear that Girls are very competitive for guys. Your friend sounds very insecure. It sounds as if she is doing things because she is jealous of your friendship with the guys and she does not want you to be happy so she will do anything to steal the other guy away from you. But by doing that, she is proving herself to be very insecure, selfish, and petty. She is not your friend. You need to find other friends.
2006-07-03 16:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Females look to men to validate them. That's why females feel that they need male attention (it doesnt matter what kind of attention it is). Your friend has some major self-issues, to just say to hell with her because you dont want to be friends with someone who has issues.
Her issues might explain why she is a whore also.
2006-07-03 16:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by Britt Britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of girls always tell me that girls are horrible to each other. but SOME girls are like that, not all of them are. maybe you need to find some better friends. insecurity posseses someone to act like that. your ex-friend is very insecure and feels worthless whenever it seems that you are worth something more than her.
2006-07-03 16:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by dynamiccharge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I haven't been able to figure girls out yet. I would love to help you but just when I think I have gals figured out I am proven wrong.
2006-07-03 16:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by jeb_oi812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's jealous and therefore tries to steal any guy you give your attention to.
Try hanging out with a guy you know she'd never like in a million years...if she goes after him, drop her - she's a whore.
2006-07-04 05:35:56 · answer #10 · answered by RuneWitchSakura1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋