my step daughter is 12 years old and her mom abused her and she kept slapping her in the face,well my step daughter refuses to go over to her house anymore ,her dad and i have custody of her ok,well her mom made an appt. at a social worker,and her daughter,refuses to go well the ex wifeblames my fiance that he put her up to this and his exwife said why are you letting a 12 yr old child rule an adult,well he said hes not well i dont know what to do????
2006-07-03 16:28:28 · 3 answers · asked by JEN-JEN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would definately speak to the social worker. There is no reason for a child to be put back into an abusive situation. Stick to your guns and support your husband. It should be reaffirmed that his ex is not good for his daughter.
2006-07-03 17:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm not sure what state you are in but in most states the child has to be at least 12 yrs. old to decide weither or not they want to live woth the other parent or visit. she should not have to go with her mother if she doesnt want the lady slapped her around for god sakes.you should talk to a social worker.
2006-07-03 16:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to not worry about what his ex says, you guys know the truth...and if need be your step daughter can talk to the social worker about what SHE wants. She's old enough to decide on her own now.
2006-07-03 16:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋