I want a relationship, but it is so fun to be single. u can do what ever you want when u want. but are men and women actually having serious relationships? All u hear these days is he cheated, she cheated, we don't spend time together, and the sex ain't good that's why I cheat. what's up with this?
2006-07-03 16:26:08 · 6 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When it comes to relationships I have no clue what I want. When im in one if feel suffocated and tied down. But when Im not with anybody I would give anything to have the cuddling, late night phone calls thing. Yes it really is hard to find a good bf/gf these days. Everyone seems to have hidden agendas wether its money, status, or just to get laid. Its hard to pick out the good ones.
2006-07-03 16:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being single is fun and care free, but it can also be lonely, because in the end it all boils down to just you, alone and by yourself. A long term relationship, especially marriage, takes commitment and resolve to work on a forever goal, and most people don't want to put in the time that it takes to make a "forever" relationship work. I have been there and learned a very hard lesson, a relationship between two people has to be about the other person and not about yourself and you must communicate. If both people in a relationship thought that way then it would be so much easier. But lets face it, in our society in which everything is becoming disposable it is much easier to just go from partner to partner, but no where near as satisfying. I am now in a "FOREVER" marriage in which I put him first and he puts me first and we communicate, no matter how hard it is sometimes, we always talk through our problems, and so far our problems have been few are far between. Marriage may be difficult at times but how nice it is to not have to continuously "learn" someone new, but to have someone on which you can rely and that you know will always be there for you no matter what. Good luck in finding someone to share your life with and make memories for you golden years.
2006-07-03 16:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, i do believe you can have a great relationship with someone, u just have to find the right one. my bf and i have been 2gether for a year and 3 months, never took a break or broke up, never cheeted on eachother, he travels 2 hours on bus to c me every single day bc we dont have cars yet and were just as much in love as we were when we met...
2006-07-03 16:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by tnamowicz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it took me awhile before I got into another relationship ; and I must say that he is a keeper . But if you think that your not ready that's fine don't rush it cause good things comes to those who wait; and that's what I did and never been happier
2006-07-03 16:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by inaijah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no their's not any normal anything,,,there's so much crap going on that even in church u find some crocked people,,,its so hard to trust.
2006-07-03 16:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do....and its new so i think there's not much flaws yet
2006-07-03 16:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋