Sounds like you were abused. Don't let it affect your relatiuonship with women. I would say you are not gay but in need of counseling and need to report the rape.
2006-07-03 16:40:26
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answered by Anonymous
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You are confused.
You were raped.
But were you the willingly party ?
Why now the question to question for your sexual identity ?
I love leather. I love shopping. I watch Ally Mcbeal, I never kiss a gal.
I cry at sad movie too. A guy try to molest me when I was 11 years old.
Guess what. I am Gay. Loud and Proud.
Now, did you enjoy the deed? Did you love the embrance?
Did you hear the moan from the person and set your heart on fire, eyes spinning out of control.
Then, to chase for the 1st time, you goes for another, another, and another to re live the 1st time.
Aren't you not a thrill seeker ???
Stop all that. Be true to yourself.
I don't think you are Gay. You just want to have the clean fun without the deed shown.
Just like masturbation. Like the sensation, the shiver.
But got to drain the *** down the toilet.
2006-07-03 19:28:51
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answered by Anonymous
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ok first of all a lot of people love Will & Grace. Straight guys like shopping and cry at sad movies too. The panty thing suggests you may have a gender issue... but gender has nothing to do with sexual orientation. The abuse from someone making you have sex at a young age will effect you in ways you probably don't realize.
2006-07-03 16:31:43
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answered by Sleepyguy 4
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WHO 'he' made you have sex with him? Technically, that part of your question would be considered rape. How old are you? 14?
I think you may be gay or just like to wear women's clothing. Some guys are just more feminine but still poke women. Who knows. You sound like a nice person to me and that is what really matters. (panties not pantys- you know drop the y and add 'ies')
2006-07-03 16:33:16
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answered by jilli 2
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I honestly don't think those things mean you are gay. Everyone cries, Will and Grace is popular with both gay and straight people and a lot of people don't have their first kiss until they are older. The only way to know if you are gay, is to figure out if you are only sexually attracted to men, and not women.
2006-07-03 20:22:10
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answered by Maggie 6
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What is more important is whether or not YOU think you are gay. Don't allow other people to box you in.
You don't have to be labeled gay or straight unless you want to be, you could choose to live a life without attaching a label to it, or you could consider bisexuality or transsexuality as labels that suit you.
Also, no action that was forced on you (rape) should determine your sexual identity.
2006-07-03 16:29:39
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answered by Elspeth 3
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i do not think so.
i never had kissed a girl. i love shopping, and i love watching shows like sex and the city, desperate housewives. only thing i did not do is the last sentence you stated. but i kissed boys.
and i am not gay
2006-07-03 16:29:31
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answered by liaomingavin 2
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No, it sounds like the only male in your life abused you, and then you must have a lot of female influences in your life. Do you have any straight men you can turn to for guidance who won't abuse you who can do male things with you? like baseball games, lifting wheights, working on cars, and just getting you out of the feminine stuff for a while?
2006-07-03 16:30:15
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answered by stick man 6
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the last one might. the other don't. but let me ask you this. where you raped or seduced? because if you were raped, all gods of love and lust forbid, then no. that would not make you gay. if you were seduced, then maybe. unless you imagined that it was a girl sucking you off or that you were f*cking, then you are gay. hell, you might be bi with as far as this information goes.
before you ask something like this, bring in ALL the information.
2006-07-04 11:17:25
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answered by gaygoddevil 3
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i think that u r a gay because u had just mentioned that u had made love with the "him". Anyway, nothing wrong with that.. Try the different thing at the different time. Just like me..
2006-07-04 04:43:14
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answered by Anonymous
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