What do i do my baby dreives me crazy bhut i love her so very much!?

Answer 1

I know how you feel because I have been there myself. It is not easy raising a baby on your own. If there is a dad involved in the raising of the baby then you should take the opportunity and let him take the baby for a bit and you take a trip to the store of maybe to the park for a walk. Getting away from the house and the baby will ease your stresses. It is hard to take care of a child one on one for the first child. You don't always know what to do or how to handle things. If the baby is crying a lot and you can not figure out what else to do once you have fed the baby and changed the baby and she is still not quieting down, you need to put the baby in a safe place(like her crib) and walk out of the room. Close the door, and step outside to regroup yourself for about 10 minutes. When you come back you will be able to concentrate better and handle the situation. Even if the baby is crying while you are holding her, you can try talking to her. I know that may sound silly to do, but it does help. The baby will hopefully calm to the soothing sound of your voice as long as you stay calm and talk in a regular manner. You need patients and a little assistance from others does not hurt. Just keep your cool and take breaks every now and then. Good Luck !!!

Answer 2

I think every mom says this at some point. I change the diaper, place them in the crib with no blankets turn on the mobile and shut the door. I walk outside of the house and stand for 3 minutes open the door and listen, hey if they are crying then they are still alright, and then close the door for 3 more minutes. If I need more time I turn on the radio and do the dishes. checking periodically to make sure shes alright. I hope you do know that if you ever even come close to wanting to shake or hurt her tell you obgyn. No they will not cart you away or take her away, they will give you some helpful medicine. A lot of women have postpartum depression and don't know it. Please seek help if you feel this way, no one will judge you they will help you. Also over the counter Saint John's wart is awesome. IT is herbal and safe. Well not if you are breastfeeding

Answer 3

How old is your baby? Does she need medical attention, is she maybe colicy.

May I suggest hiring a teenager, who can act as a mother's helper. I found this to be great for a kid who was not quite ready to be a babysitter, but wanted a job. You are there in case, but they can learn. Then when you are ready, you may have found and trained your future babysitter for the next few years.

This way, maybe they can help with the baby while you do what you need to do or just maybe even take a nap if you are tired, or conversely, you can take care of baby while they fold laundry or do whatever.

This should help relieve some of the stress that you are feeling

Answer 4

there are three things that might help
ONE: is there anyone you can safely leave her with for an hour or two so you can relax , the change might do her go also.
TWO: make sure she is feed and dry, put her in her crib, put some soft toys in and turn on some baby music, and close the door , she will be fine if she crys let he it is OK
THREE call the hospitable and ask if they have any groups for mom with baby's,
I had my first boy at 30 and the next 18 months later , it was very hard for me, our hosp. had a mommy class it really helped me out alot, your not alone

Answer 5

Remember you are her whole world, she is totally dependent on you. That fact can be overwhelming ( the responsibility) but that should also make you feel needed and important. Her cries are the only way that she can communicate with you. You will be able to (if you haven't already ) be able to distinguish between her hungry cries,sleepy, and wet . Once you understand her it will help. Also if you can have anyone help you on a regular basis, even if it is for 2 hours one day a week just to give you a break and get out.

Answer 6

Just put her in her crib... She's safe there. If you need a break, call someone you trust to come and sit with her. Go for a walk, take some you time and don't feel guilty about doing it. Every mom needs time away from their children. It will be good for both of you. Take care and just give her all the love and attention she needs. Oh and if she's colicky, try lactose free formula. I know how you feel. Good luck!

Answer 7

sounds like you might need a little break. Some times we get so exhausted trying to take care of babies they seem to "drive us crazy". In my opinion, you need to find time for your self during the day (or whenever) if you cant get someone to come watch the baby for an hour or so, find time when she/he sleeps that is just for YOU. I think maybe you can tolerate the crying and demand when you know you will have your own time and a break. Hope that helps.

Answer 8

You could have postpartum depression. Ask your caregiver or call your local PPD hotline (there are some, especially in larger communities). Postpartum depression is a real illness and should be treated with counselling, talking to other mothers, and sometimes even medication.

I also know of a postpartum depression yahoo group where mothers talk about how they are feeling. The web address is: http://ca.groups.yahoo.com/group/postpartum_depression

Answer 9

Get some help. From neighbors, friends or relatives. Even an hour at the library by yourself will help. I depended, and still do, on my friend who also has kids. We take turns watching each others kids. Especially when you're having a bad day you really need someone you can call and tell them you need an hour.

Answer 10

Sounds like you need some me time.Go out for a couple hours and have some fun.Leave the baby with someone you trust.It's good for you and the baby.It shows even at a young age that when you leave you come back.Best Wishes!♥