I dated a man who has a daughter who keeps cyclically moving home with dad every 2-3 years. She is married and moves her husband and her kids in. She has no job and no plans to get one. Her poor husband works and she shops all of the time.
Daddy bails her out and she pretty much is rude and dirty. She don't clean house or do dishses. She basically just shops and sits on her rear.
Daddy thinks she is being a good mother. His house is filthy and their are toy boxes all over from her shopping.
2006-07-03 16:22:35 · 4 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The dad has really bad health problems (diabetes, heart disease ) and has about 6 years to go before he retires. I am concerned he is going die working his rear off. I loaned him my car to get to work tonite. I make sure he is doing ok. How another human being can be so self centered and selfish blows my mind.
2006-07-03 16:34:01 · update #1
Well, you can tell him, but he already knows, whether he admits it to himself or not. And telling him, is probably just going to put a rift between you. A bigger rift, that is.
As long as Daddy lets her, and her husband goes along with it, it's going to keep happening, and unless he has complained about this to you, he will probably keep letting her.
He may be trying to atone for past neglect, that sometimes happens. In any case ... unless he already sees it as a problem, you aren't going to convince him it is one.
If you try, what he will probably think is that you are trying to come between him and his daughter.
This is an impossible situation, I would move on.
2006-07-03 16:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like the other ones said you may cause a rift if he does not see it as a problem himself. have you ever thought of talking to his daughter and explaining how her being this way towards her dad is not very good for his already poor health. tell her that if she wants to have her dad around for along time that maybe it is just too much for him to handle with them living with him.
2006-07-03 23:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave, or like the chick above me said, mind your own business.
2006-07-03 23:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by BluntTruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
m.y.o.b.
2006-07-03 23:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by Its Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋