why on the earth i am feeling attracted to married man , why this happening to me ,?

Answer 1

It's natural to feel attracted to other people no matter what their circumstance is... just with hold yourself from acting on it. Trust me I have to do it all the time.

Answer 2

Attraction is one thing, action is another. So you're attracted, so what? Have some morals and move on. I'm attracted to the idea of kissing a wild lion right on his cute little nose, but guess what? Not the smartest idea I ever had, attracted or not. You never know how crazy a man's wife can be, take it from me - I'm one of them. :) I find out - your life as you know it is OVER. Hmmm...maybe you like danger and THAT'S why you're attracted. Got a suggestion for you, take up parachuting. Good luck with the moral fiber thang.

Answer 3

Have you noticed that the best ones already have dates, girlfriends or are married. There is something about an attached man that brings out lust and jealousy in single women. This is normal but it is best not to act on your wants as they are temporary and you would probably be dissappointed with him. There is someone for you out there. Of couse this does not mean that you have to let go of the attraction if it turns you on just don't do the act.

Answer 4

Well it really depends on what it is about him that ur attracted too...

For some reason women are attracted to the fact that married men are 'already taken'.

But just make sure that you get over it otherwise you might end up on Jerry Springer or somthing similar. Lol... =)

Answer 5

Because humans are social animals. Mankind started as Polygamous because survival depended on it. So, in our genetic makeup, we are still the byproduct of our ancestors.

Christian don't believe in polygamy because Paul them so.

Modern Society frowns on Polygamy because the Government frowns on it.

And, our Governments frown on it because Paul said so. And, to control population rates.

Which failed since more girls are getting pregnant without marriage.

Because of Jealousy, few men and women can now be in a polygamous or Polyamory relationship. Most of this jealousy came from the Christian religion. Christians are jealous of those that can live a polyamorous life because Paul told them they cannot love more than one person at a time and still have time to love God. And, that mankind is not capable of loving more than one person equally.

The Islamic religion is similar to the Christian religion, and they have two to three wives (but, it is also one sided. Women are not allowed to have two husbands). Even the Israels didn't allow women to have two husbands, though the men could have two wives.

Also, many people have trouble loving two people equally. Which you need to do in a polygamous or polyamory lifestyle. You can't have favorites. All partners have to be loved equally.

So, it is natural to feel attractive to someone that has a spouse, since that spouse is not you, and it is natural for mankind to want more than they are allowed due to customs and religions.

Answer 6

I do not know but there was a guy on here the other night that gets aroused by married women. I told him the same thingg I am telling you. You always want what you can't have.You probally crave the married life. I also feel(personally) that in this day and age with std's out there pchologically we feel safe with someone that is married.

Answer 7

Married men offer a couple things to a single woman. The offer of sex with no strings attached. The opportunity to take a man away form a woman he is so in love with that he married her. The fulfillment of something that is obviously naughty and bad. You choose.

Answer 8

I wish you gave more info, but here you go.

IF YOU ARE MARRIED OR INA RELATIONSHIP: Maybe your relationship isn't doing that well, and your depressed from the downfalls of it. Attracting to married men means that you envy them and you prefer him as your huband or whatever than your current one.

IF YOU ARE SINGLE: Maybe you are sick of some single, teenaged average guys and you prefer someone with more experience, that knows how to handle a woman. So you get attracted to the experienced, mariied men because of it. Or you are depressed taht you are single and you want a marriage.

Good luck!

Answer 9

because it's something you can't have. and when you can, you won't want it. sometimes I think women do this because they have no respect for men and this only solidifies their assumption, that men can't be trusted even married men. they have wiggled their a'ss in front of too many men and always got the guy so they lose respect. believing all men can be corrupted, if they can corrupt a married man that is the ultimate proof they need, It serves no useful purpose except that they end up living a very lonely life because they have learned that no one can be trusted. so they trust no one.

Answer 10

Because sometimes we need an assurance that there's guys out there that actually take marriage seriously. Unless you are having an affair with him. We want that secure feeling. And we want it so bad that our common sense gets blinded. Sometimes to be true to ourselves may hurt, but it's the right thing to do. You shouldn't split up a marrige because you're attracted to someone. Believe me, they are ALOT of singles guys out there....

Answer 11

The thing about married men in general is that they are less inclined to be selfish and self centered than single men because they are having to consider someone else all the time.