I have never done it thorugh intercourse!
2006-07-03 16:20:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
you havent had the right one yet..talk to your mate and open up about what you like...where you like to be touched..or your best position for sensation...a true sexual companion will do what it takes oral or otherwise for you...seriously..
2006-07-03 16:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by KT 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never had this problem with a woman, however, I understand it is pretty common. There are some , many from what I read, that can't have them through sex at all, only through manual stimulation. Don't lose hope though. Have your partner research g-spot stimulation techniques (yes it does exist), and clitoris stimulation, and use them while having sex. The biggest piece of advice I can give you is to just relax and always communicate what "works" for you to your partner. It is different for everyone, and he may not know what to do either. Hope it helps.
2006-07-03 18:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by Pete 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to assume you're a female. First, it's not at all uncommon for women not to be able to have an orgasm through intercourse only. Oral sex is probably the most efficient method for most of us gals.
I would suggest that next time you and your partner are having regular intercourse that you have him play with your clitoris during the act. The combination should be able to get you off really well. and you will get to experience an orgasm while he's inside of you!
2006-07-03 16:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by susandiane311 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral is purely a lot of stimulation. Tus you are used to an overly amount of it have you tried foreplay and oral before intercourse to get off when you have intercourse? Maybe you could try a vibrator. For guys they have vibrating cock ring that might make things more interesting. Little boost of stimulation couldn't hurt.
2006-07-03 16:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by pinkbunnylol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-girlfriend is like that. That is she couldn't climax through intercourse. And she was somewhat depressed about it even to the point of seeing a therapist. I wish I could pass you her e-mail address so you could talk about it with her, but she would probably be preety upset about it if I did. I think it's more common a thing than you believe it to be now.
2006-07-03 16:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by Ron Allen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not unusual. There's nothing wrong with you. You simply require more direct stimulation to reach orgasm. Lots and lots of men love to perform oral sex. So like back and enjoy. Don't forget to reciprocate. He'll just want to do it more, if you do it for him.
2006-07-03 16:25:42 · answer #6 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm, only about 75% of the female population.... The majority of women are only able to orgasm through manual or oral stimulation.
2006-07-03 16:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jill S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that this is more of a problem for 'him' to figure out than for u to. Give him some pointers on how 2 get u there
2006-07-03 16:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by DaDirtySouth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because your man sucks in bed or you're not attracted to him.
2006-07-03 16:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by erica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and actually there are alot of women like that!! It is totally normal
2006-07-03 16:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋