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2006-07-03 16:16:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Psychology

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Someone once confessed to molesting a little girl.
I remember feeling outraged and sickened at the same time. He was a client at the time and had been abused by an uncle himself (A LOT), but that didn't excuse it. Of course, I had to report it.
I still feel sorry for the guy and all the torment he experienced, but nauseated by what he did to that girl.

2006-07-03 16:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by psychgrad 7 · 0 2

That my cousin was raped by our uncle (by marriage) when she was nine years old at our grandparents' house, during a time when the house was filled with relatives, including me. She was raped again several times afterwards, even at her own house, when the uncle visited them. The oddest thing was, nobody ever suspected or see anything,even her mum. She was a naturally shy girl who barely spoke since small thus everbody thought this was just her being a recluse when afterwards she became quieter and start avoiding family gatherings.

I was stumped when she confessed this to me several years ago when we were both 18 years old, I cannot believe she had endured all this by herself. And i pity her soooo much, she has no place to turn to for she fear her mum would be very judgemental (which later was proven true because when she confessed later on, the mum contemplated that maybe it was because she was naked that time, when it was actually the uncle who spied on her during bath time) while the dad is just the nicest guy around she does not want to break his heart..I feel regrets now for not being able to protect her then and furthermore now. We are a close knit family so when her mom said 'no telling to other people' what can I do? I want to do what is the best for her now, but I am still torn, I do not know what i should do? Should i open up an old wound and let the bastard pay for his crime but risking my pretty's cousin good name and reputation, or should i just let it go like evryone else for it has been several years now her secret has been with me, her mum and her sister and yet nobody ever made an indication that they will ever tell this to others.

I look at her and her relationship with her dad, & i think the dad will be so torn if he founds out her most precious first born child was molested by a man he now calls brother and yet he knows nothing of it..

2006-07-03 19:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by aishah 5 · 0 0

The worst thing that some one ever confessed to me was, A friend who I no longer see told me how he use to make his cousin eat a sandwich made from bread and poo, yes sh.it, I was so sick to my stomach. He had told me why he did it and how he felt when she ate it. Then from that he told me how he murdered his dog and other animals, I was like why me, why are you saying this to me. He said he needed to tell someone he cared about before he really hurt someone. When he told me these things I new he needed help, I was never more repulsed by someone in all of my life. To know what could of happened in years to come if he had not confessed this to me. He needed help so I gave him the help he needed.
He booked himself into a mental ward where he stays and is never to be released. His choice as he knows he is evil.

2006-07-13 19:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by AUSSIE AUSSIE AUSSIE 3 · 0 0

Wanna know something?

I would really love to be able to answer your question, and share some confidence that someone has trusted me with - but - I have this weird thing that happens to me, when someone prefaces a 'confession' with the statement ----

'don't ever tell anyone I told you this. . .' blah, blah, blah -

I hear their story, and relate to it, and share my thawts and feelings with them - then ---

POOF -

I have some kind of memory meltdown!

and for the life of me, I truly don't recall anything that I have heard, or been told - in confidence.

Isn't that shocking? It is to me. . .and the worst of it is - I'm left with no juicy gossip material to spread around.

2006-07-11 10:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

someone i know killed someone in an auto accident. it was unintentional but upsetting all the same. i arrived on the scene of the accident just a few minutes after it happened and tried to comfort him because he was upset. i felt so powerless though as the police and rescue folks ran about dealing with the situation. we lived in a small town and i never told anyone about it since i wanted to respect his privacy.

i have always remembered that situation and have tried to be a careful driver. in fact i have never been in an accident that was my fault and i think my driving habits were definitely impacted since this happened when i was a very new driver myself. sometimes i think about him and hope his life turned out ok since it was not his fault. such a sad situation...

2006-07-11 05:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by Money Maven 6 · 0 0

My sister, very wounded from a recent divorce was starting to date again and she confided in me that she was raped.

I felt so sorry for her...she had only ever been with her husband..and after 15 years he confessed he thought he was gay...she, being so hurt put herself in harms way...

2006-07-13 07:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by Wild seed 4 · 0 0

A close friend once disclosed to me that he killed a man just to see what it felt like. He later became a mob enforcer. I never was close to him again and have seen him rarely over the last 40 years. I never forgot what he told me.

2006-07-13 14:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by Tom 7 · 0 0

difficult call, i somewhat dont comprehend what i'd do on your difficulty. in case you want him adequate proceed seeing him and be conscious the way it is going. Its trouble-free to ascertain why he would carry this from you, he doesnt like it to sabotage each and every courting. Be happy that he did inform you eventually besides the undeniable fact that.

2016-10-14 02:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

my daughter confess that she was made to go down on her uncle when she was just a little girl that was 30 year's ago and i just found out beleive me i no longer speak to him

2006-07-13 17:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by mishoney 4 · 0 0

That Michael Jackson used to be black.
Now he's just wierd looking.

2006-07-11 20:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by Lone Gunmin 2 · 0 0

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