My husband doesn't *** when I perform oral sex... He says that he loves it and that he is almost there, but that he just can't finish... He says that he has never *** from oral sex. We've tryed EVERYTHING! Any suggestions on why this might be happening and what we can do to fix it???? Serious answers only please....Thanx.
2006-07-03 16:07:13 · 16 answers · asked by Jamie-Girl 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
He's trying to hard. Need to relax. Maybe change up your technique up alittle. Maybe you gotta throw some kink in there. Use a little ice, maybe a porno. Make it wet and I mean sloppy. Talk nasty. Took me a while when I was younger. But I hooked up with my ex-wife, she opened my eyes to what great head was. Watch a how-to vid, or talk to a girlfriend, see what works for her. Good luck to ya.
2006-07-03 17:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by vannod 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Same thing with my boyfriend, then one day it just happened! And it has happened once more since then. The only thing that I could pick as being different was he was COMPLETELY relaxed. The first time was after we'd had a candlelit bath together and Id given him a long massage. The second time was when he was just waking up in the morning.
If you do try any suggestions you receive, don't tell him what you are trying to achieve. It will put pressure on him. Just keep doing it with him knowing you don't expect him to ***.
Also, don't only use your mouth - use your hands at the same time, and alternate between techniques. Have a couple of drinks first too.
2006-07-03 16:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by ♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men can come easily when manipulated by others and totally let go..whereas other men need to control their own rhythm to reach a specific point...first you have to let go of the pressure that he has to come during oral sex...second both of you can practice by him masturbating to the point of orgasm and you start giving him oral....this way he can get use to the idea of coming while performing oral sex by you....
2006-07-04 01:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is not very excited about B/J's. Does he really like that? Or do you have oral sex because YOU insist? I understand you may like doing that, but, what about him? Try something that really turns him on... 69?
If not... just have regular sex!
2006-07-03 17:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by angelj16tx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys doesnt have sex drive cuz they are under pressure or having some problems.
You shud try to bring him to doctors to get him.. I dont know
there are cases like that- that guys don hav sex drive, and it's over the advertisement here in Australia. Find "Tasmanian ___"... I think it's something like premature ejaculation
bring him to checkup and goodluck
2006-07-03 16:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by aclau85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is either physiological(he might have ED), psychological performance anxiety or he mightnot be honest with you. You have your homework to find out what it is not and what remains is the problem.
2006-07-03 16:13:14 · answer #6 · answered by stratisnj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Massage the berries.
2006-07-03 16:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by Pauly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
francly i don't either *** from the oral either and, i have no clue why. But...it still feels great....ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...yea
2006-07-03 21:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by brownec_870 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have normal sex then
2006-07-03 16:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by a girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may b u dont do it rlly good do some reasearch on ways to do it
2006-07-03 16:10:54 · answer #10 · answered by euge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋