i concider myself a good looking person but i do not date guys that look good and my family and friends get annoyed by that. should they?
2006-07-03 15:59:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
And if u see a person ugly and still decide to date him then i guess he must have some other quality that probably attracted you.So you can share the additional qualities that attract you to date an ugly looking person to your family and friends .......... I guess that will work if u have a reason to date an ugly guy
2006-07-03 16:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by chdman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your family and friends should not be involved with your personal life like that. And they really should take you off a pedestal.
I'm not saying you are not pretty, I'm just saying that it sounds like they think you are the hottest thing and should be paired with an equally good looking male.
Do what you think is right. If you like the guys you date, then you should keep dating them and tell everyone else to mind their own business.
2006-07-03 23:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by kristijay99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was shallow when i was younger and worried about what everybody would think of the guy i was with looks wise.What i've found is that guys who are really attractive are also cheap and easy for any chick that pays attention to them.Slightly less attractive guys seem to be better all around.Screw what everybody says if the guy treats you well.Ask your family how they would like it if the guy you were dating was really hott and was kickin your butt or cheating every which way from Sunday.
I am a hott chubby/average chaser and proud of it!!!!
2006-07-03 23:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by sayithere2004buddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all lokks dont matter, to me its all about personality. In life looks dont really get u no where. If u really like him then u shouldnt be worried about what other people think even if they are your family member because they arent the ones dating him, you are. So do what you think is right. You should never judge a book by its cover, trust me I would know.
2006-07-03 23:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by Aries Iz Me ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, that what you think, is what i think. That's from the musical Newsies if you didn't know that. It's pretty good. But seriously, if you like a guy for what's inside... i say kudos. Some people can't do that. I have learned but if you are telling the truth on how you don't date good lookin guys, then definately keep going in the direction that you are. You are awsome girl, don't change!
2006-07-03 23:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by nobody is home 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually don't like it when people think that someone should be judged by how they looked and that the person you like is disliked by friends and family.
I support your decision of dating guys like that, only if they have a good personality and everything. That is what you want, and if so, then good job!!!
2006-07-03 23:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by endlessly_waiting_in_the_rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not big-headed before I start.I am attractive,Im nearly 6ft,long dark hair,slim build and implants.I turn heads wherever I go.I met my partner on the phone,I fell completely in love with someone I had never met.When I did meet him,he wasnt what I expected at all in the looks department.I decided to give it a chance.He is no oil painting,but his personality shines through.he has impeccable manners,immaculately dressed,and worships the ground i walk on.I have been with him 2 years,and i can forsee myself spending my life with him and never looking at another man.true,we get some funny looks off strangers.they are wondering what i am doing with him.i couldnt care less what anyone thinks.i have never felt so happy and loved.looks dont matter.
2006-07-04 05:39:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people will date someone they feel is "less" good looking than their self because it kind of boost their confidence and ego.Why don't you date good looking guys? No matter what, if you like someone for who they are inside, and make you happy. Then YOU shouldn't listen to any one but your own heart. It is you that has to live with your decisions, not others. You follow your own heart. It is personality that counts, not looks!
2006-07-03 23:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by mitzi o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A quality of a person should not be measured by looks or money.Any one whom chooses this method of qualification, is in the informed opinion is of an ugly character.You must in this life make your own decisions, without the interference of friends or relatives.
2006-07-03 23:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by TWINKLES 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should not because looks are not the answer in a relationship, i think personally that personality comes before looks. if they are ugly you dont see them ugly because they already caught your heart, i say you continue datin them, think of it this way they will never cheat on you lol and you will get all the heads spinnin at you and not him lol. good luck girl and always smile :) it gets u through a hard day seriously :)
2006-07-03 23:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋