im extremly shy around guys and theres a guy i relly like how do i talk to him or better yet get him to talk to me. im not good at flirting
2006-07-03 15:58:31 · 12 answers · asked by C.J. 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
try to see what hes into and try doing somthing he likes and maybe u like also then you guys can start talking and get to know each other more
2006-07-03 16:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by BRIT 1 · 5⤊ 3⤋
Find something you guys have in common - do you like the same artists (music), sports, activities, or anything?
Bring it up. Or better yet, if it's music, turn it up loudly and walk by him; he'll realize you like the same music and probably talk to you.
In my situation, at first, I was told to sit next to him in class... assigned to actually. We talked, joked, and flirted. It works, believe me. Teachers ARE there for a reason, believe it or not.
Also, if it's a sport... Say you see him after school, ask to join in saying you love the sport. I did that for skating with my now-good-friends Zach and Matt.
Good luck!
2006-07-03 23:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try and be his friend and talk to him about random stuff or you could just go up to him and say '' I think I have a crush on you but it's going to go away sooner or later'' This lets him know that you like him but also tells him to act fast . Good luck !
2006-07-03 23:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by ?heartthrob? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find out his hobbies, hang out more where he hangs out.. just don't over do it and act naturally. if he is involved in a club or something all the better, go join it (as long as it is not rugby or something like that) and increase ur chances of getting him to know u.
2006-07-03 23:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Raven Hood® 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. If he likes you for who you are he will come up & talk to you himself. But if he doesn't then it's not meant to be! Forget him & try to become someone the guy of your dreams would like!
2006-07-03 23:03:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I SAY IF YOU LIKE HIM GO FOR IT BUT SHOW THAT YOUR SHY ABOUT IT HAVE FUN FIND AWAY TO TALK TO HIM ....BUT FIND OUT IF HE IS WITH SOME ONE 1ST SO YOU DONT GET IN A MASS ....HAVE A GOOD TIME AND DO WHAT YOU LIKE IS BEST
2006-07-03 23:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by babyme23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is interested then he might talk to you. Otherwise you have lost the chance.But do not make a fool of yourself.
2006-07-03 23:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by kalabalu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like him, just act yourself. then if he likes you for the way you are, then that's good. if he doesn't like you for the way you are, then he doesn't like you. you wouldn't want to go out with a person who doesn't like the real you.
2006-07-03 23:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by xstaciixlovex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just approach him and start up a conversation in something your interested in. Be your self.
2006-07-03 23:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by honiebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act natural and be relaxed if you are yourself and he like you he should come up to you and talk to you!!
2006-07-04 20:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by playing...lifes...little...game 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋