My mom is the church type, more pretrective, and is getting married and is more that 2000,000 miles away from my dad and I love my dad and he doest want me to move, but should I, cause I cant tell , and wat about god wat does he want me to do?
2006-07-03 15:58:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
do what you feel will make you the happiest.
dont worry about what other people think.
2006-07-03 16:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by TK #11 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, good question there are not many people out there that would ask God's opinion and I want you to know that this is the best thing that you could ever do! Although I could never speak for God, his answer would be more along the lines of one that is not self serving but not one that leaves you feeling and living miserably. He also wouldn't want you to choose an option that would cause you to lie or misrepresent yourself in anyway. In order to answer this question for you, I would have to ask you some questions like,
First, what is it that you want to do?
Do you have a fear of hurting one or the other?
Did you ask God himself what He wants you to do?
In the end, you do have to do what is best for you. My advie is pray to God and He will tell you exactly what to do. Don't force yourself to make a quick decision. Believe me, His is the only opinion that you need.
2006-07-03 16:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by ljones_0424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should see a therapist to sort this out. I have no idea. Sorry about your situation. I don't know your age, but this decision is not your fault and you are just stuck int the middle of this crap. So you make the best choice for yourself and don't worry about who to live with or guilt because you should live with the parent you want to live with. You love them both and you can visit them so, decide the positives and negatives of each place and maybe that will give you the sign you need.
2006-07-03 16:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and plainly like your mom is volatile and met some dude/dud on the internet. If she would be in a place to lie, so are you able to. you need to call your dad and tell him the area and which you reside with an entire stranger of a guy. Ask him if he will deliver you the Amtrak money to journey the bus back to him. For Goodness sake, ask your sister if she desires to circulate to. i could circulate away my volatile mom severe and dry, like she left you with your dad.
2016-11-01 04:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by zubrzycki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God would want you to follow your heart. Don't lie to either of your parents and your parents shouldn't force you to choose. You should have the choice to live with one or the other and be able to make arrangements to visit the other as often as possible. Whatever you decide, this is something you should discuss openly with your parents. Whatever you want, they should understand. Make sure it's clear that you love them both and want to spend time with them both.
Good luck.
2006-07-10 11:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by mirleta_liz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should consider where you are in life now and what will help you to suceed best ...perhaps school choices or social connections will be different. Remember life is long if you make a mistake you have time to fix it later. Don't stress....when in doubt go with your gut.
2006-07-03 16:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents and let them know how difficult a decision this is for you. If you can't talk to them, talk to a relative or parent of one of your friends you can trust. Try to find a way to stay close to both your parents. If they're loving parents, they will want what is best for you and will do their best to understand your situation.
2006-07-03 16:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by kibbits2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a choice you are going to have to make on your own, Nobody on here knows you or really knows your situation. Do what makes you happy
2006-07-03 16:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off all- you spell God with a capitall G, dont choose sides tell them how you feel about it, If you want to know what God thinks about it.... JUST ASK HIM, HE WILL ANSWER YOU. NICE DAY...
2006-07-03 22:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by Charlene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents and figure out something fair for all three of you guys.
2006-07-03 16:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by honiebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok 1)who do you like best? 2)who makes you comfy and happy? 3)listen to your heart...see if that helps
2006-07-03 17:10:42 · answer #11 · answered by omusubii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋