Ok, so my half uncle had a sex change after some therapy. I didn't know this until just recently. I have to see him tomorrow and i am kinda afraid to see him. The last time i saw him he didn't have the surgery yet. So i didn't know. I think that it's gonna be really awkward. What should i do?
2006-07-03 15:30:51 · 30 answers · asked by nobody is home 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
whats really going to be awkward is when you both go to the ladies room
2006-07-03 15:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Form what you just said I can tell you that it will be awkward for you.
Go, don't avoid this person, if you are face to face (with others not close) then say, I glad you happy with your choices, but I'm really not comfortable with this change. If he has learned anything from therapy he will understand.
Now if this starts a conversation and you are able to relax, wonderful! If not... go about you day and have a great time.. it will be okay.
2006-07-03 22:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by 4mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is still your uncle and just respect his wishing because if we as human being get looked at for all the things that we did that other did not agree with we would be so unhappy and it would hurt like hell to know the people we love the most are now judging us
2006-07-03 22:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by DEFINE WHAT LUV IS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats tricky.. I guess try to be as normal as possible. If you really feel uncomfortable maybe you should just stay away.. If that sort of thing dosent bother you than.. You have to remeber he is still the same person on the inside.. and im sure after a few minutes talking to him youll feel better.
2006-07-03 22:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by its_cinful2828 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a difficult situation. Well. I guess your uncle is now your aunt.
I know it must be really hard to wrap your head around that, but try to keep an open mind. If he/she had this done, he/she obvioudly feels better about himself/herself this way.
You can't choose your family, you can only love them and accept them the way they are, with all their quirks and excentricities.
After all, they do the same for you!
2006-07-03 22:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mama Felicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...he's had to go through a lot of therapy to be able to do that. don't feel bad if you bring it up somehow...he knows what he did and that it might be hard for some to accept it. shoot, just come out at say something about it and he might explain everything, gotta break the ice and dive in or you'll always be shy and wondering
2006-07-03 22:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by AMY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course god is human.
but remember god comes to earth and is not recognized except by a few. This really is your chance to say god as a human called on me.
hows this for truth:
allah=f
police=f
don=f
hellls angels=f
loser=f
based on god=g+o+d=7+15+4=26=2+6=8=h
thus:
h=god=good angel=angel of death
so when allah is god to arabia and they take flights down for allah remember who that equals to them.
god as h wanted nothing to do with using airplanes as weapons.
why do your sacred words work out that way?
cause all things to praise, laud, or honour HIM was commanded by the bible the worlds most powerfull book.
so to solve mystery just look closely at french stop sign. and see name pronounced I arre t but image of god could be said to be EMPEROR.
read between the lines and it says [il IVI PERIOD=
so if you ask why its said god created the place we see, use the equation god=7154=17=8. and see three celestial bodies the sun, moon and earth as 8.
and if all things to honour him then death somehow honours HIM. so note name pronounced Ta-ed but spelled different that TODD cause of copyright infringments. so god is pronounced Todd but due to tecnical discrepancies no longer spells it TODD.
and Messiah=IVI stitched together es s.l a h
so theirs god what is you intention?
2006-07-08 16:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the same person inside, can't judge until you know what he's gone through, guaranteed after the first bit of awkwardness, you find he is more open and happier too...
2006-07-03 22:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by cindyw1eye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think talking to some other relatives about this Issue will be helpful to you. But if you feel "THAT" uncomfortable seeing"HIM" I would wait til there is a family gathering; you would not be by yourself meeting him as a "NEW" person.
2006-07-03 22:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by lousylaus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is still the same person inside be the same with him/her ther shouldnt be a drama just because he had a sex change, dont fret just wait and see what happens tomorrow
2006-07-03 22:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by nell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um well it is definately an interesting thing to do but i mean he is still your half uncle and well if you love him for who he used to be you will possibly come to love him for who she now is.
2006-07-03 22:36:16 · answer #11 · answered by Antzman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋