I've known my current BF sicne when i was 12, we didn't start dating until i was19.
We've known each other for so long b/c he is the son of my dads frat brother. when we i was about 17 and he was a sophmore in college thats when we really started to "get to know each other".
when i was 19 we went into a full relationship and have dated ever since.
So now, I'm 21 and will be 22 on the 1st, and he's 25.
He got into a car accident a few months ago and was SO close to dying, but i was there at the hospital with him almost every waking minute. He's alive and well now. Last week we celebrated his 25th bday and he told me that he wants to be only with me, and once i've graduated next year he wants to permenatly commit, or if legal get married. He told me to take my time.
I Know i love him, but I'm scared. But he's like my soulmate i doubt ill meet someone else who sexy(hung), good in bed, successful, knows me better than anyone else, and is mentally sane. think I'll be ready by then??
2006-07-03 14:41:18 · 11 answers · asked by Smart.a$$ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Note: I'm Bi and my parents REALLY dont know. And if I do marry another man wont ppl automatically label me as gay? People who know im bi always ask if i'm on the DL. NO, its only the DL if no one knows about it...........
2006-07-03 14:45:11 · update #1
It shouldn't matter what other people think if, you love him that much then you should take the next step to committment. I mean it's not like everyday you find your perfect soul-mate. You guys have history together which makes your relationship even stronger. So marriage seems perfectly right.
2006-07-03 18:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to an older guy. I've been where you are. WHO CARES WHAT PEOPLE THINK? your mom will love you no matter what as long as you are happy. trust.
Don't be scared of love. it's a good thing. My only issue is your age. know that you have gotten together so young that your definitions of yourself will change so many times. I married a high school sweetheart. IT failed and I am going through a divorce. She was and is my soul mate but we both changed over the years. Make sure you are able to change with him.
2006-07-03 16:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Vell g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can decide when you come to that point....marriage is a commitment of two person to each other exclusively.....being gay couple it's less complicated by the fact that you cannot produce children naturally. However , if both of you desire you can always adopt. You have to know your priority, such as pursue a career of your passion. And for him as well, If both of you have your priority sort out and can still be physically together, marriage is not such a big step anyway...
2006-07-04 02:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 06:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you are ready to commit, to a relationship or sexual identity. I'm Bi, definitely more drawn to men, but I made a commitment. My bf knows and we both decided not to share. Commitment is to that one person, not one of each.
2006-07-03 15:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide if you are ready for such a big commitment. But in my opinion, if you were ready then there would be no doubt about it. Do like he says and take your time.
2006-07-03 14:46:42 · answer #6 · answered by RIVER 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, all i can say is, follow your heart, not your head, and your brain and heart are 17 inches away from each other and that is the longest journey you will ever take!
2006-07-03 17:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by munkypoo1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, he said to take your time. I would. :)
Don't rush it. Know for sure that this is what you want.
If it's really love, it will out last any length of time you put there. Just be patient. You'll know when the time is right.
2006-07-03 14:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the dif if peeps think yer gay? Why do you care what others think? F@@@ em and feed em fish heads.
2006-07-03 16:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by BBQribs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart tells you to do. don't mind what other people will say. whether you are bi or gay doesn't really matter to other people. what matters is your own life and happiness. do what makes you happy. good luck. cheers!
2006-07-03 15:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋