Why is my boyfriend so paronoid and abbusive to me about being unfaithful when i have been nothing but faithful to him but i found out he is being unfaithful with my best friend what in the world should i do?
2006-07-03 14:33:49 · 23 answers · asked by monica i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is blamin you in being unfaithful because he is the one doing it and he knows how it works. i used to be with this guy that kept accusing me of cheatin then at the end it turns out that he was da one cheatin on me. i saw you dump two of them your best friend and your bf because if she was your best friend she would not do that and for your bf should be a man not trash and should not do that kind of stuff, you do not deserve the way he is treatin you. dump them and live a better life with people who treat you better and the way you should be treated.
2006-07-03 14:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's being paranoid and abusive because he feels guilt for what he is doing. If she's doing the same thing, what I am doing is okay. My advice would be to dump him and find someone you can trust. Let your "best" friend have him and good riddance. If he's like this now, it's only a step away from physical abuse. I'm sure you deserve better than him, any woman does.
2006-07-03 14:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by mopargrapeape 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave that ***-hole. Why stay with anyone who Willl abuse you, that is not the person for you. A real man wil never put his hand on a women. That is not your best friend because as female we should know the golden rule "Never sleep with your friends man or date her EX's". Your so-call friend could of told your "Ex" boyfriend that you are taking to other dudes, so she stink A-S-S!!! can bed him down. Leave both of the ***-hole alone their not worth you time. And if he want to raise his hand at you again call the Dam COPS
2006-07-03 14:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by JO`NAE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose that weight. Abusive men only get worse and sometimes even kill the one they profess to love. He apparently has low self esteem and needs lots of reassurance. He controls through fear. Anyone even you can do a lot better. Don't stick around for this clod.
2006-07-03 14:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by Elwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIS BUTT, when they r that paranoid bout u cheatin its usually bc they r doin it..so get out now, if he has done it in the past he will do it again..and abbusive, oh hell no..if a man hit me id cut his a.s.s n be gone.
2006-07-03 14:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man is being a jacka** because he knows that he has done something wrong...and the best way for him to deal with his guilt is to play the blame game with you! And girlfriend, let me tell you....she IS NOT your best friend!
2006-07-03 15:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is acting that way cause like you said he is cheating on you. I would leave him and go on with my new life and also that so-called best friend would be out of my life as well. No best friend is going to treat their best friend that way. I would loose both of them, they deserve each other! And after they get together, I hope like heck he ends up cheating on her like he did with you and HE WILL !!!! Good luck with you new life.
2006-07-03 14:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his a## you do not need to put up with that Sh## call the popo get a restraining order and move on i guarantee you ll find some one better...
2006-07-03 14:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM! He is putting his guilt onto you and you are tolerating it. In the words of Dr Phil we teach people how to treat us! If you don't like the behavior you need to be strong and tell him to buzz off! Obviously it wasn't our "best friend" or she wouldn't have betrayed you.
2006-07-03 14:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break the relationship and move on to a trusting sole. Life will be more plesant. Do not blame yourself and let him go his way.
2006-07-03 14:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by john f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋