how do u get a guy to love u?

Answer 1

By being yourself
and if thats no good
enough then its time
to move on to the next
YOu cant make someone
love you. You ant make the
heart feel someinthing that it
doesnt want.

Answer 2

First you must love yourself. Then you must believe that you are worthy of the love and respect of another. Be yourself and be patient. Also be wise. There is a big difference between love and lust. Don't show desperation by being clingy but do be kind and understanding. Set boundaries on what is and isn't acceptable and stand firm. The right guy will realize that you are a precious jewel and treasure you. Don't be ashamed to treat your man like a king as long as he treats you like his queen. The two of you can rule your own private kingdom side by side in love.

Answer 3

had a friend who was born in India raised in the UK. He thinks he's superior to everyone. He attended the best schools and thinks he's white because of his British accent (where he was raised) though he's dark skinned. He forgot his ways. He spoke with an Indian accent but never showed it in front of his friends. He never admitted it but seems to me he was ashamed of being what he was. Needless to say he was not a friend for long.

Mai hindustani nahi hu. But my husband is. I laugh so much when I ask him to say the word "crape" it sounds like the word "crap." Ha ha ha. I love that accent!

If you're from India you shouldn't change the way you speak English. If you can communicate with your Indian accent that's all that matters. If you really want to learn watch tv, movies, etc.


First, English does not roll "Rs". This is indicative of Spanish and Italian.

As to your question, there is only one way to learn what you are asking. This can be learned more quickly with a tutor. However, most people do not even realize how they pronunce words, in any language. And so a "tutor" would have to understand one principle in order to be helpful.

You understand some of this by "Bite the lips for Vs".

Aside from the movement of lips, the tongue plays the most important role. Since all of us, from toddlers, learn this early on, without any thought of how we are moving lips or positioning the tongue, we speak without any "training" in that respect.

The key word is "training".

If you can find a person whose native langauge is English and understands this, that person can help you with the placement of the tongue and movement of lips.

For example, "A" The mouth is open, tongue "floating" and sound almost coming from the throat.
"E" The tongue is placed at the bottom of the mouth and lips parted, like squeezing the sound out.
"I" Open the mouth, with tongue in bottom of mouth and almost dropping the lower jaw.
"O" Form the lips as a circle.
'U" Bring the lips together with tongue in bottom of the mouth.
"C", The tongue is held for a moment behind the lower front teeth.
"D", the tongue is placed in the roof of the mouth.
"F" Drop the lower jaw slightly, bring it up, with tongue in bottom of mouth and let air pass between the lower lip and lower teeth.

I'm not a teacher, I learned most of this by studying foreign language.

NOW, having said all that, you may encounter a minority of Americans that speak this way. And, so, over here, you will think that you have not learned anything in English.
Our language has been corrupted.

Southern Drawl, Texas "Ya'll" for You All
Far West more normal
Mid West more normal
East "Youns" You, meaning plural for all of you.

Just a few. Some parts of New York, I can't understand.

Good Luck!

Answer 4

There is no way in in the world you can get a guy to love you, because if a boy loves you he'll love you because he wants to. Try simple things like improving your personality, dressing a little nicer, and getting involved into things you don't normally. Now this isn't going to make him love you, but he may become a little interested. So try new things and see waht happens.

Answer 5

You can't make someone love you. What are you, 12? You have to love yourself, look out for yourself, and not worry about someone loving you. If you are worried about a guy loving you, all you are doing is opening yourself up to getting used and hurt. Guys, most of them, like girls who are strong and have a personality. Not someone who pretends to be something just to make someone love them. Grow up!!!!

Answer 6

You can't get guys to love you. I'm 44, and single, and would like nothing more than a life partner. Guys, being the creatures they are, seem to be very commitment-phobic. I don't know if this is a genetic thing, or if it is a societal thing, but it seems to get worse all the time.

Answer 7

You can't get a guy to love you....hello? How old are you? Love grows and if he does NOT love you, get on with it. You cannot make anyone feel this for you. If it does not happen, then find someone who will, someone will, believe me.

Answer 8

You can't "get" someone to love you. In my younger, foolish days I tried, and was not only left disappointed, but feeling really dumb and desperate. True love doesn't take pushing or shoving. It just happens- as natural as breathing. Now, I'm not saying that maintaining a relationship is easy, but falling in love is.

Answer 9

you can never get a guy to fall in love with you. It happens on his own time. The guy him self will know when he is in love and is ready to tell you. you can't make anyone love anyone.

Answer 10

you cant get a guy to love you it has to just happen on its own but there are ways you can get him to LIKE you which is on the way to love-- for a guy to love you he has to know you inside and out and still want to be with you and want every part of you including your flaws-- thats true love

Answer 11

you cant make anybody love you. it has to come naturally. you will find your true love oneday. there is someone out there for everyone. if you have a certain guy you are interested in, just be sweet and nice to him and try to form a friendship first. that is what i am doing right now with a guy i am interested in. love will come.