Serious question: How to change my life? only serious answers thankyou?

Question

i have been living in the computer "world" for six years...HELP!
how to become normal?

Answer 1

First, decide what you want to change to. Define what this "normal" is. I mean, if you just say, "I want to change my life" then you're just stating a preference. If you really define what it is that you want to do or be, then you've set a goal; a viable alternative to what your life is now.

After you set the goal, do something (at least one thing) every single day to move yourself closer to that goal. Even if you suffer a set-back on the way, stay on target. If your goal is realistic, you'll get there.

Remember these immortal words from Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe.

"Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back-- Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth that ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now."

Good luck to you in whatever goal you set for yourself.

Answer 2

What do you want to change? Turn the computer off, buy a bicycle and go out riding. Learn how to play the guitar, maybe the piano. Get a new job, or a job if you don't have one. Move to a different town. NORMAL is a realtive term. If being normal is being the same as everyone else, I do not want to be normal. So many ways to change a life - big change or little change? Wear different clothes. Do anything you have never done before. Go into a store you would never go into otherwise just to see new things. Test drive a brand new car, just don't buy it. Go to a sporting event of some kind. Sounds like turning off the computer is the first step though. Have you ever been to an automobile race? How about bowling? Soo much to do. Go do it.

Answer 3

I can answer this the only way I know how. I came to the same question you did. I changed EVERY aspect of my life. From the friends I hang out with to the clothes I wore, right on down the the boxers. Seriously, that is the way to make a new start. I know it sounds contrite, but if you are going to make a change, make change! I live in a "rich, yuppie" neighborhood, and i found myself losing touch with the common man. I literally had to change everything about my existence to become normal. Have fun with it. Change one aspect at a time and do it just as you want to. Make it a challenge and don't let anyone's opinion or attitude stand in your way. Trust me, if done correctly, your life will never be the same. Live by one motto....your life ends in 3 months, do whatever you can before it is too late! You'll never be the same. If you want more details, my email is [e-mail]. I would love to chat with you.

Answer 4

Best thing to do is just to get out, out of the house.Go to a park, a library, meet some people, ask some questions, look around at the world and see how it is, what is wrong, wonder at how you can change it.Learn something, climb a tree, make someone smile, do a sumersault, go swimming, drive to the city and buy some seriously cool clothes and walk around like that and go to a dead posh cafe and laugh to loudly.Find something to rebel.Try to write your life story, your biograhpy.Then rewrite it the way you wish it was.Write where you want to be in a year.Try to get there.Write crappy poetry and proclaim it a masterpiece.

Answer 5

There is no "magic answer"! If you REALLY want to change your life- you just have to DO IT. You need to have a plan. Set goals for yourself, set limits to using your computer. Join a club- take a class at your local community college, volunteer at a shelter, or a church- whatever interests you! There are book clubs, poetry reading clubs- clubs for just about anything. The more you get out with ppl, the less you will rely on your "computer world"- there is nothing wrong with using the computer, but you have to have limits. Good luck!!!

Answer 6

I think we all want to change our lives. We all want ourselves to be different--more skinny, more friends, more money, more excitement. I think going somewhere else is a good idea. Do something you've never done before. Go to a different country. You have you're whole life ahead of you. Decide to do something that you're passionate about and work hard for it. Don't give up on dreams, too many people do. You can do anything. The possibilities are endless.

Answer 7

go outside, socialize, do some volunteer work in the community, take up a sport and meet people, read a good book. there are about 10,000 things you can do besides sit in front of a computer all day, and anything you do to get yourself away from the screen is a good thing.

Answer 8

Get your life styles in balance..does not mean you are in computer world for 6 years.life is not normal..
You need to get motivation on how to enjoy in real life and working infront of your computers.

Answer 9

Check at a local school or homeless shelter or nursing home to become a volunteer. Seeing others' misfortunes will make you happy with your own life, give you satisfaction of helping, and *snap* you into reality.

Answer 10

You want real answers? Okay, start with unplugging your PC or laptop, breath deeply, close your eyes...look inside yourself and ask your if your happy with where you are now or do you want to do something else? LIfe is the choices we make. These choices determine whether we are either happy or unhappy. Now, open your eyes....make your choice.