A while back into our relationship my boyfriend gave me his yahoo password so i could get on under his screenname.Ok....we were fighting one night and he got offline.I then went under his screenname so i could delete my screenname off of his list.That was all.Everytime id go under his screenname hed have a diffrent chick each time added to his list from nearby.And today suddenly he changes his password on me.is he hidding something from me or is there something he dont want me to see?!All my friends tell me to leave him cause hes such a jerk.But why cant i leave him like i wanted to a while back into our relationship?:(
2006-07-03 14:03:50 · 18 answers · asked by holla_backgurl4u420 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No one but you can decide what is right for you. But you are young, so why hold yourself to one guy?? Who, by the way, obviously isn't treating you well. From the sounds of your bf if he is talking to a lot of other girls, it sounds like he isn't ready to be in a relationship. You deserve someone who'll give you their 100%. But like I said, no one can decide but you. Good Luck!
2006-07-03 14:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by linds_a_lot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if he is playing mind games with you (he could easily add a girl's name under his just to mess with you and make you jealous) or if he is really IMing these other girls.
Maybe he saw that you were spying on him and he just decided he better change his password because you didn't trust him.
Whatever, if you can't have an honest conversation with him, so you can figure out what is going on, you don't have much of a relationship anyway.
If you do decide to talk to him about this...do NOT be all accusing or he will just get defensive and totally clam up and then you won't find out anything. Instead, it is better to approach it with humor. OK, first you let me log on on your account, and now I can't...how come?
Most importantly, try not to talk at all when he answers you...let him fill in the silence...the quieter you are, the more he will try to fill in and you will find out what you need to know.
2006-07-03 14:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by Elise M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't leave him because you lack self respect
you will settle for less becuase you feel you cannot do any better
so you have a low opinion of yourself
it should be obvoius he does not really think much of you with all those chicks on his contact list
and you better belive right he is making every effort to hook up with them
but becuase you are the equivalant to an emotional carpet mat and refuse to let go of him
you enable him
give him power
to manipulate you at will
and keep you exactly where he wants you
i doubt you'll do the right thing
and leave him
and seek others ( after you clear all emotional baggage out first )
2006-07-03 14:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has changed his password, there is obviously something he doesn't want you to see. It's up to you whether or not you want to leave him. Personally, I wouldn't have a relationship with someone I couldn't trust -and that is obviously an issue here. Don't settle for that kind of relationship - it's not worth your time and it is definitely not worth the effort of always trying to guess what (or who) he's up to. There are plenty of other guys out there. Good luck to you.
2006-07-03 14:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by BRIAN W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be hiding something, or trying to make you jealous. Ask him about it, but don't expect a good answer. He sounds like a jerk, and unless he has a good excuse or a sincere apology, dump his sorry ***. He'll regret it.
I'm going through something similar... =/
2006-07-03 14:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by babyrooster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U went in under his name to delete your name from his list and now he has changed his password, effectively deleting you. Isn't this what you wanted to do anyway ????
2006-07-03 14:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by tusitala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because now he's the one who pulled away. This is too much drama and not worth you time. Let it go and move on. You'll be a happier person.
2006-07-03 14:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if you are seeing other peoples names they could be friends, but if he changed his password it could be trust issues. If you are not comfortable then leave him. Listen to what your friends say but remember the last dicision is yours
2006-07-03 14:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably has soemthing to hide...from experience I know that guys will use the internet for their personal fan club. And if he is a jerk, then you should definatly get it over with.
2006-07-03 14:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are idiots, dont expect much more from him and youll never be hurt, dump him as there are tons of guys like him out there. The trick is to find the one keeper
2006-07-03 14:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋