17 and pregnant?

Question

if you dont have a logical answer to my opinion or questions(whatever) do not reply to me because some of you dont know what to say
thank you

Answer 1

~~congratulations to both you and the daddy... what a wonderful post Father's day present for him. I’m not sure what exactly your question is, if you are asking about adoption and need more information I can get you the information you need, if you are looking to keep the baby and need information on development, and possible resources, I can try to help you in that area too. if you are asking about abortion, You would be correct in saying that an abortion could cause complications. if you are curious of the risks involved I have a copy of a consent form that you would be signing at any abortion clinic, reading this over may give you a better idea of what exactly you would be getting yourself into. There are many organizations out there also that can help you should you decide to carry to term. Many don't know that with a low income from the Social Service agencies there is help with the cost of child care. many will even pay a family member that is not living under the same roof as you to care for your child. If you would like me to scan in a copy of the consent form, or would like any other information such as resources for assistance, click on my avatar and add me to your yahoo messenger, and I will be happy to help you in any way I can. Good luck to all three of you!~~

Answer 2

If you are 17 and pregnant then I guess you have a few options. If you are in a relationship and you feel that you are mature enough to have and raise the child then do. Don't get married just because of this though. Its not worth it. It won't keep the man in your life or the childs. If you have the proper support at home then you will be okay. If you feel that you aren't ready then have an abortion (easier said than done.) Its not a choice everyone has to know about. If you don't believe in that then look into adoption. There are open adoptions where you can be part of the childs life if you choose to. Stay strong and when you make your decision don't let anyone tell you its wrong, its your choice.

Answer 3

It's okay to be pregnant at 17 ... hey things happen all my brothers(8) and sister(2) had kids at 17 it's fine they started young but its good they both grow up together and they have the same common knowledge and they can also hang out with them. But things happen and they happen for a reason, but It's better to keep what you are having then to do something cruel because you never know if you'll get the same chance in the future. If your pregnant congratulations... you are having a beautiful miracle that will always love you and you can enjoy a new perspective on life with. Enjoy every minute and don't worry about what people say they only talk cuz they have nothing else to talk about and there life is not interesting to talk about. Congrats!

Answer 4

im just like u except i was 16 when i got pregnant but i am now 17...everybody wants me to have an abortion but im not doin that cuz i have to much love for myself...all i can tell u to is stay stron im tryin my best to do that...i tell the Lord to make me stronger so i can get through the day and i put it in his hands...that's all I can do...if it wasn't meant for you 2 have a child u wouldn't have gotten pregnant or u would have had a miscarriage...Remember God doesn't put no more than u can bear and u can bear this so do a good job in whatever u do...GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 5

In society nowadays.. i tink its common.. i do have a few frens who was pregnant at a young age.. Of coz i dun know wad kind of man ur husband is.. but if you are realli going to get married coz of the child think twice..

I got a few frens ended up in divorce afterwards.. reason is simple cause they are young and the guy tends to flirt around and not mature at all..and also to support the child finanacially is a burden for them..so they often will quarrels...

Ask urself do u have the financial ability to take care of the baby and are u going to leave sch coz of these? cause u might regret later on...

If you are unable to give the baby a good future.. i suggest u dun bring he/she to this world.. this might sounds cruel..but afterall when u see the baby suffer together with u.. it's much more cruel..

Hope it helps...do confide in someone closest to u.. if nt u will be veri confused...

Answer 6

i'm 18 years previous i have been given pregnant with my first son even as i became nonetheless in extreme college 17 years previous, my relations became no longer more than satisfied about my sons dad did not opt to be there for a lengthy time period, now pay interest this became somewhat ridiculous to positioned this on right here, what would you ever imagine even as u get 20/25 and characteristic extra youthful ones and also you cant deceive them even as they get a particular age and also you would could tell them they'd have had a huge brother or sister that's pathetic, i became scared to lack of life!!! NOW i'm pregnant with our second toddler and can want to under no circumstances imagine my existence without both of my youthful ones, you want to strengthen up once you've sex that's YOUR duty on your moves safeguard your toddler!!!!!! in spite of in case you cant provide the toddler to someone who would it not wasn't the toddler's opt for to be right here you presented them right here so enable someone who will love them have them!!!!!that's the least your toddler benefits!!!!

Answer 7

I say Congradulations! Is it a boy or girl? It's not bad. At least you were not 12, or 13, or something! You and your boyfreind would of got an STD. I'll bet the hardest part wuz telling your mom & dad that you were pregnant. Congratts and many happy years. You are going to college. right? I hope so.

Answer 8

I assume you are talking about yourself..or girlfriend, etc. You are young to face such a challenge...but you can do it. What you have to do from this point out is to realize that the little baby is the single most important thing in your life. You are going to have to begin making sacrafices...you will miss out on some things a teenager would get to do....but it will be worth it in the end.
The most important advice I can give you is to stay in school. Get an education...go to college. It will be an uphill battle, but one that is definitely worth winning. I hope you have help, your parents, etc...someone to guide you through. There are pregnancy resource centers in every city..look in the phone book if you have noone you can talk to. Do everything you can to improve your life, your situation..because it will improve your child's someday too. You can do it....it is all worth it when that little face smiles at you...good luck

and p.s...keep yourself healthy..eat right, get prenatal care...keep doctor's appointments, and listen to their advice. :)

Answer 9

i say continue school and start your career so that you are able to give your baby a future better than yours, i had 4 children by the age of 21 and i am very successful and maintain very well and they're ages are 14-12-11-9 and there daddy committed murder and now i am left with 4 kids and if it we rent for that i had an education i would not have been able to take care of them like i am suppose to. and give them every thing i didn't have. love,
LaGuera

Answer 10

Give the baby to a loving couple to raise who have the resources (home, money) to raise a child in the best possible way. Children need a stable family.