Ive known her since second grade and last year she recently moved to my school from her school about 15 miles away. Since she got here shes just been bitchy 24/7. At school she started out shy. Then she turned prep. Then the school s-l-u-t. Now shes going all emo.
Shes nice to me only when i get something new. Then a day later she'll get the same exact thing and brag about it to me.
She needs to learn to be a better friend because right now she has about 1 true friend.
2006-07-03 13:50:16 · 14 answers · asked by Kendy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
At this point, I'd say just sit back and watch what happens to your friend. it'll be sad, believe me. Then - It'll be up to you to accept her as she is or to tell her that she's getting what she 'deserves'. Oh, you can tell her, now, that she's this way or that way, but until she's hit rock bottom, she really won't know. Good luck meanwhile. Don't be jealous of her - above all else.
2006-07-03 13:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This can be a learning experience for you.....just because you've know someone for a long time doesn't mean she's your friend. She's an acquaintance but she's not your responsibility to fix. If you need to say something to her, you could mention to her that since she's new to the school she might want to take it easy because she's getting a reputation. Then when you see her say hi and ask her how's she's doing? Then go about your business.
2006-07-03 13:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds lame but just try to sit down with her 1 on 1 and try to have a hear to heart talk. I had a friend in high school who did the same thing to me. No matter how good of a friend they are if they are not willing to listen to what you have to say they are really not that great of a friend, or at least not anymore. When I talked to my friend she was upset about what I was saying, in fact she didn't talk to me for a while, but then she started to see what I was talking about. We are not best best friends but we are better friends then we would be if I decided not to talk to her.
2006-07-03 13:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to help her realize she needs to change is to tell her you're not interested in hanging out with her anymore for the following reasons, and then explain them to her. If she starts arguing, tell her that's just the way you see it and you don't want to be around her negativity any longer while she still wants to act like that. Perhaps after she's lost you for a while, she might come to her senses and apologize. If not, it sounds like it's not really a big loss anyway.
2006-07-03 13:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by blueskies7890 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk with her about this and if she do not change her ways. Part ways with her, some people are in our life for a season, meaning there is something to be learn. Maybe God is trying to show you that, if you became that way this is how everyone will look at you. or, he also can be saying friend like her who needs enemies!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-03 14:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by JO`NAE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let her know that she has a true friend.Have you heard the saying "you don't know what you have till it's gone"? Well you need to show her that being like that can result in losing people that are very close to you.Once she realizes, she'll probilly stop, if not then that's her lost, and she wants it,so give it to her.
best wishes
2006-07-03 13:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by candy no's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her in a non-bitchy way, lay it out to her plainly with out being affronting or backing down....be firm and tell her waht seh does bitchy and what i true friend would do, what i mean is tell her how it is seh treats you and how a true friend would...show her the difference, seh can either take it adn except it and try to change, or be outraged adn end your friendship, and well, its a win-win for you right?
k, hope things work out!
bye!
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2006-07-03 14:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omgsh...I can totally relate. My friend is nice but she is a *****. Just talk to her, be like " Hey blah blah u r acting like a ***** to me and i dont appreciate it, i h8 it when ur like this and it isnt fun to hang out wit u" if it hurts her feelings...tough
Good Luck!
2006-07-03 13:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not being a very good friend coming on here and calling her names.
2006-07-10 09:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to her. Ignore her as much as you can. Find a new friend who isnt as bithchy. Treat her the same way she treats you so she can feel the same way. AND TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL!!!!!!
2006-07-03 13:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by bleek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋