When my sister was 5 she was as good.She never would do anything bad.I was proud!But when she turned 6 she started abusing me and me brother.Yelling,bitting,Slaping us.So when We decided to let are mom and dad handle the changes they still think she is inocent.She only abuses us when there not home,or when there not around.Now she is 10 and she is gay now.I noticed the changes!She dose not look at me the same way!Now the first thing she looks at is my breasts.And whats worse is she is abusing a saved 6 year old child for her own amuzment!Im very worried!What should I do!!!!!!!
2006-07-03 13:47:52 · 34 answers · asked by Candy 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
She also Looks at porn from my uncle's closet!Im very worried!!!!
2006-07-03 13:49:16 · update #1
We tell her that we love her but she dose not care.What is this!!?She has chaned in so many ways.
2006-07-03 13:50:15 · update #2
Doesn't it seem odd to you that her behavior changed when she was 6 and now she is abusing a six year old? I'm betting that she was abused and couldn't cope with it. she needs professional help. It sounds as though she will be a danger to herself and others until things are changed.
Whatever you do you need to make sure that she is no longer in a position where she can abuse others. Someone needs to take action to get her away from the child she's abusing. Abuse is a perpetuating cycle and without intervention, your sister will create another person just like her.
2006-07-10 08:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by pelotahombre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean, "abusing a saved 6 year old for her own amusement" Is she sexually abusing this child? If so you have to report her to Child and Family Services so that they can give her the help she needs.
Perhaps she was sexually abused and you can be there for her by encouraging her to speak up about her emotions and anger she feels. Do not let that 6 year old child go through any more exploitation from your sister! You may not be able to help your sister but you can make a difference to an innocent child. Act now rather than later!
2006-07-18 07:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most likely someone may have been abusing your sister as well. She is only a product of the environment she lives in, plays in, goes to school in and works in for the most part.
She not only was more than likely abused but then to add insult to injury she's being influenced by people and other people's negative lifestyles.
If you can go to someone in your neighborhood that is a member of the clergy. Hopefully they will be able to give you some direction and advise you properly.
Peace Out and start developing a prayer life with Jesus.
2006-07-17 19:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by blakelycollierbrown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did she know there was porn in your uncle's closet? she does sound as if she's been abused, and 6 is a young age to begin abusing people she loved just a year before. 10 is also very young to know what your preferences are. it could be that your uncle has been abusing her. she would likely not like men if a man has been abusing her. you need to talk to someone who will force your parents to face this issue. call children's services, and don't be afraid if someone in your family might get mad at you. your sister needs help. you already recognize this. please post back, and let us know how you are doing. you are very affected by this. it's obvious that you care about your sister. you have to care about the six year old she is abusing too. it's not uncommon for an abused child to act out the abuse that's been done to her. you might be your sister's only hope.
2006-07-17 02:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by Debi K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your frightend, and soungs like she's physically abusive. Call the Child Protective Services, Its in the blue pages of your phone book or information on the phone. And report her, they'll see to it that she gets some counseling and help her to understand that she's is causing pain. See some families pretend that there is no problem, thinking it will go away but during this time you and your sibling are being abused. So, don't allow your parents to neglect this, you have the right to be heard
i wish you much luck and strength
2006-07-17 10:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, the porn thing is kinda normal. All kids, male and female, start getting curious around 10-12. Some even younger, and some wait until they are older. But if you see her doing it, let her know that is natural to want to look, but she needs to wait until she's older. Then let your parents know. If you have to, don't let her know you've caught her, then lead your parents to her so they can see for themselves. If she keeps it up, she'll be a pregnant (or diseased) middle-schooler. There was a girl I went to school with from kindergarten to 8th grade. She was always known as one of the "sluts" at the school. By the second semester of 7th grade, she was pregnant. She had a one year old kid when we started high school. You don't want your sister in that situation. She's not ready, especially if she had a violence problem.
As for the hitting, kicking, and biting. She's way too old to be doing that. My three year old son even knows better than that. He knows better now because when he was one, he bit me, hard. So I smacked his hand, not hard enought that it would have hurt me, but hard enough to sting him. She needs to see how much what she does hurts other people. But don't do thid yourself. Next time she does it, if it makes a mark, show your parents and take a dated picture of it. That way, if there's a medical problem with her, you have documented proof of what's happened.
If all else fails, and there's nothing that stops her from hurting you guys and trying to be sexually older than she is, stay away from her as much as possible. She'll eventually either get tired of being alone and straighten up. Or she won't care and lose sight of you all together. Either way is better than fighting all the time.
2006-07-18 03:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report Abuse!
Next time she sexually abuses you or your brother call 911.
You won`t get in trouble from the authorities and people will be forced to pay attention.
She is not gay at 10 she is to young to know what she is. She is only fascinated by what she has seen on the porn videos and is reenacting them. Otherwise she wouldn`t be abusing the boy.
This will lead to her becoming gay as it is the easiest sex for her. She will be introducing it to all of her innocent girlfriends, one after another as she spends overnights with them. See how easily something like this is spread.
This is very bad and will lead to all manners of sexual problems in the future for all of you. You must report it.
2006-07-18 07:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by Gone Rogue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the cops and do it now. It sounds like she has been sexually abused to me but I am just a joe blow so you need someone who has some training and is in a position of authority.
You don't need to call 9-11 but you do need to talk to the police. What your saying is only going to get worse and worse if you don't act now.
2006-07-18 04:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abusing a child is not something I would keep quiet about. If your parents don't listen, tell the six-year-old's parents. Even if you can't prove it, at least more eyes will be on your sister and there will be less of a chance of her abusing anyone else.
2006-07-03 13:56:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your guidence officer or principal at your school.
Let them know that you are afraid and concerned about your sister and what is happening. Tell your story.
In regard to her maybe being gay.... that is an assumption and most probably not the case and if it is don't be afraid. You are not interested in that way... you sound very young.
Your principal will be able to speak with your parents on your behalf.
2006-07-17 18:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by lourdess777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋