Its nothing serious now, But I'm affraid that it might lead to something. I don't want to lose my husband.
2006-07-03 13:38:16 · 5 answers · asked by AngelBaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One year ago today I left my husband because of problems I didn't think we could fix. The point I was at last year at this time was characterized by hopelessness and despair and the only option I could see was to end the marriage. Now, here we are a year later and we're stronger than ever. It took so much, mostly his determination and my growing up, but we made it. I suggest to begin by telling him how you feel and gauge his feelings. Then I suggest going to a counselor to help you through it. It's amazing how the smallest things can really lead to major issues and it's important to deal with them as they come along rather than sweeping them under the rug. If you are both committed then you can work it out and it can be repaired. Don't let anyone tell you it can't unless there are issues like abuse.
It sounds like you want to work through it. It took me many many months to get to the point where I wanted to work through it and I'm lucky he never gave up on me. Don't give up on him and your relationship. But it's important to seek out some wise counsel because you can't have all the answers. Best of luck!
2006-07-03 14:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by Allison 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the main question I guess is why you feel this way. If you feel this way does he too. There must be some cause for feeling this way and hopefully its a small one, so if its a relationship worth saving then talk together about it or with someone, theres alot of good marriage counselors out there and every once in a while we all can use a little help. Just resolve the problem now before it becomes a huge out of control problem. good luck
2006-07-03 13:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-22 10:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should sit down and talk with your husband now before it get to the point that it is serious
2006-07-03 13:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all figure out what the problem is.
2006-07-03 13:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋