2006-07-03 13:26:52 · 101 answers · asked by sexylips 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe..
2006-07-12 18:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by happylittletoes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not tell my ex. Also, I think that it is a bad idea to be with your ex's friend. I have a rule. I never mess with two dogs from the same pack. Believe me, problems will arise. A factor in this decision would be how close is the friendship between your ex and his friend, "best bud" or "just one of the boys from around the way". If they are very close, this could prove to be DANGEROUS. Men are very territorial and it is not fair to bring someone else into a volatile situation. I know that if I dated one of my ex's friends, he'd more than likely fight him until one of them couldn't stand. But my ex is explosive and I know it. You know what kind of ex you have. Act accordingly and be careful.
2006-07-18 07:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell only if u tink ur ex- can understand u or only if ur compelled to do so .One more thing if u & ur ex share a good friendship then it can b helpful too so that u can know that friend well !
2006-07-18 05:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by ambarish h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be with your ex's friend i think you should tell him and talk to him about it. Make sure that he and you will be comfortable being around each other when you are in that kind of relationship.If he isn't and you really like his friend than date him but don't go around your ex. Let the guys ( b/f & ex) have their time while you go hang with the girls.When ever your b/f isn't with your ex just hang with him then too. GIve your ex some space if he isn't comfortable that way nothing(hopfully) won't happen to ruin their (b/f & ex) friendship but make sure you and your b/f 's relationship doesn't get ruined either...sry if that's confusing
2006-07-18 17:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by Angelina T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Are you still close with your ex? And if not, do you really want to date the ex's friend knowing that you'll probably run into the ex often? If you're not close with the ex...then you're under no obligation to tell him or anyone else. You're using the term "ex" for a reason.
2006-07-17 10:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your ex's friend also want to be with you? If so, and if it's that important to both of you to be together, then I think it's the responsibility of your ex's friend to tell your ex about dating you. If your ex's friend is that much of a good friend to your ex, then he/she would respect your ex and tell your ex how they feel.
2006-07-19 01:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by ram_lovely007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is your ex. What goes on between you and anyone else is really none of his concern. That's why he is your ex :) Lets just say it's done and over, no need for you to rub it in his face or explain. Go on with your life and do what you want!
2006-07-17 22:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by Tainted_Halo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your ex's friend also want to be with you? If so, and if it's that important to both of you to be together, then I think it's the responsibility of your ex's friend to tell your ex about dating you. If your ex's friend is that much of a good friend to your ex, then he/she would respect your ex and tell your ex how they feel.
2006-07-03 13:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by miche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dnt understand this EX thing if a person is an EX, then is the person that they were with not allowed to get with the EX's friend?
the way i see it is that, the EX is a free agent after the break up so why is everyone SCARED to tell the EX!!!!!!!!!!!!
Both EX's shoud get on with their lives and not worry about wot the other is going to say!!!!!!!!! nw leave me alone!!!!!!!! x
2006-07-18 06:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by monaUK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course
Have you ever wondered which hurts the most?
Saying something and wishing you hadn't?
Or saying nothing and wishing you had?
I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say.
Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them.
If you do, they might break your heart
If you don't, you might break theirs.
Too many of us hide our true feelings because we are too afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all.
Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what theywould have done, or could have had.
*What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye?
*What would you do if you loved someone more than ever and you couldn't have them?
2006-07-17 23:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would imagine that even if you don't tell the information is going to get back to your ex anyway. It would be better then to just be upfront and honest. It shows you as a mature person.
2006-07-18 10:31:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋