this may sound weird but...?

Question

my bf wants to have s.ex with me and i really want to (i am only 13 years old) and he has toys for it and cond.oms this is sorta a 2 question thing but the first ? is
1/ should i do it
2/ where is a good place to do it with (cant do it in my house or his cause our parents wont let us be in the same room together)

Answer 1

Your Too Young!!

Answer 2

You're 13 years old. Have you asked yourself the reason you "really want to" have sex.

1. It's against the law - statutory rape, sex with a minor, lewdness with a child under 14, ad infinitum.
2. Your body isn't a play-toy. It's not like having a sleepover, where you do each others nails and rat out on one of your friends. It's an adult activity, with a lot of risks involved. I can't see you, at 13, looking for those risks, like HIV or Herpes, or Gonorrhea. STDs are serious, Girl! I mean, if you want to go on a crash, death diet, get AIDS with unprotected sex or a leaky condom. You'll look real slender and trim in your casket.
3. If your parents and his parents do not want either of you together in the same room, do you think they may have a good reason there? You never mentioned how old your bf was, either. Did you conveniently forget to mention that?

So, to answer your questions:
1. No, you should not do it until you are more mature, and I don't mean just by chronological age (being older, like 18).
2. Nowhere!!!!!!! Seriously!

Answer 3

I think you should really reconsider this. If you can't talk to your mom about the positives and the negatives of having sex, make an appointment to see you doctor or go to one of those clinics for teens. You'll get all the information you need and you'll be making an educated decision. Just think about it, your only 13... you could be making the worst mistake of you life. I don't know what else to say but this: 1/ You shouldn't do 2/ Don't worry about where to do it, cause you shouldn't do anyway. I hope you'll make the right decision. You are obviously confused about it or you wouldn't have asked this question. Take Care and good luck!

Answer 4

I believe 13 is way too young. It's good that he has condoms, but think really hard about it. I'm not one of those people that think sex is only for one person ever, and that you should be married, but 13 is young. One day your daughter may ask you when you lost your virginity, will you want to tell her 13?

I don't think any 13 year old is smart enough to understand the risks, or understand how to deal with the consequences if something goes wrong, such as an STD or pregnancy.

Answer 5

Ok, # 1 condoms arent 100% safe. Nothing really is. Trust me, I know. Im 22 with a 7 year old. I thought I was ready, but I wasnt. You should wait. If he loves you at all he'll respect that. I'm a single mom with a full time job trying really hard to go to college. Trust me. Just wait. Go out with your friends and just be 13. Before you end up like me, Praying to god everyday that I could be 13 again.

Answer 6

Before you do, ask yourself this:

Am I ready to be a mom?

Even if he uses condoms, there is still a chance of you getting pregnant. If you do not want to have a kid, and your boyfriend really "loves" you, you two will wait until you are much older.

I have a feeling that his "love" is going to last until you put out, and then he will dump you and trash you to his buddies. Guys talk, especially about conquests.

And how old is your boyfriend? I think you should talk to him about things before having sex, like what will he do if you get pregnant (and if he says "you won't because I am gonna use a condom" he isn't ready, either)? Is he going to support you and a child? Is he old enough to do that?

There is a lot more to think about than condoms, sex toys, and where to go to do it.

The long and the short: WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

You may feel like its the right choice, but sweetie its not..... your body and your head will tell you it feels good but you are physically still quite young

Hold off for a while explore the non sexual side of your relationship

Think about the long term impact,
~when you break up with this boy will he talk to his friends about you give you a reputation.
~will other people talk about you
~What if you get pregnant at 13 that means at 18 you will have a school age child and 26 someone your age!!!
~what if you get a sexually transmitted infection, condoms dont stop everything warts, crabs, herpes

WITH SEX COMES RESPONSIBILITY
ARE YOU READY FOR THAT???????

Answer 8

Don't do it. If he's pressuring you then he doesn't love you, and would you want to lose your virginity so young with someone who doesn't love you? Also, how old is this guy? If he already has toys and condoms, I'd be somewhat concerned about where his thoughts really lie.
13 is too young. Please think about this, and wait. Waiting won't hurt you, but rushing it likely will, if nothing else it'll be harmful emotionally at this point in time.

Answer 9

The reason your parents don't want you to be alone in the same room is because of the very question you are asking. I think you should wait...you're too young and teen relationships don't usually last very long...you'll regret it later on because all he wants is sex who's to say he doesn't dump you a week later.

Answer 10

Don't do it. Hate to sound like a a cliche, but there is PLENTY of time for all that later in life. Don't be in such a hurry to grow up and experience everything.. be a kid and enjoy all of the freedom you have. Sex just complicates things more.

Answer 11

No you should not!

1, It is illegal
2, You are certainly not ready emotionally
3, Your body has not even fully developed yet
4, You are more prone to cervical cancer and infections the younger you start having sex
5, Wait at least another 4 years!!!