my friend and me?

Question

my friend is preganat i have no problem with that but sometimes i think she don't deserve the baby she has 3 months left and she wont buy the proper things to take care of her she lives with me and i think i'm goin' to have to raise the baby bcuz she is irresponaible an di don't know how else to tell her that she should start takin' care of herself she acks like shes not even preganat i really want to help her but i need help by the way her mom doesn't know and she is only 15

Answer 1

this is way too big a thing for you to handle. get a responsible adult involved.

Answer 2

Honey, if she's only 15 and she's pregnant and not taking care of herself you need to step in a find someone who will make her. Tell her mom, call a social worker DO SOMETHING! If she never talks to you again because of it, oh well, you didn't need her as a friend anyways, but if you intervene now, you could very well be saving the life of an innocent baby and helping it's mother grow up to be a better person.

Answer 3

wow girl you dont need this kindof drama in your life shes your friend and she needs to understand that your not there for her to use and thats most likely what will end up happening i have been ther and i hated it. you need to let her know how you feel if shes a true friend she'l understand if not then you saved yourself alot of trouble. her mom should already be in trouble for not being responsible for her own child if her mom has no clue then her mom hasnt seen her in along time. and thats wrong your family is very kind for letting her be there as long as she has been but you arent responsible for what she does and you should tell a counselor at school or something who can help her cause its too much for you to handle and you shouldnt have to its not your kid its hers if she didnt want it there were options for her if she still doesnt want it she needs to know this. she can go to plan for parenthood or even to an adoption agency who she might actually be able to meet through plan for parent hood its a company for girls who dont want their parents knowing that they are sexually active or even pregnant but your friend needs to amke a decision on what she wants to do cause she most likely isnt ready to be a mom and she has lots of time to do it again. i had a baby at 17 and i still wasnt ready to give everything up i wanted to party and everything else as a teen and the older you get the more craxy life gets for you having a kid is a big responsiblity and im saying exactly what was said to me around your age and i cant believe it but its so true, its really hard and its alot of work and if she wants to party and stuff you'll be the first person she either asks to go with her or to watch the baby. where's the dad? does she know who he is? write me and let me know ok i hope everything works out the best for you.

Answer 4

Maybe she needs a reality check. She is 15 and pregnant? That's very irresponsible and I believe that if she lives with you even if her mother knew she probably wouldn't care anyway. What parent would let there 15 year old move out and live somewhere else.

Answer 5

You should let one of her close relatives know,like a older sister or cousin if she really doesn't want her mom to know bcuz you can't take care of the baby it's tooooooooo much to handle.

Answer 6

You're right, someone will have to step up and care for the baby she is obviously too young!

Answer 7

if she only has 3 months left her mom should alreaddy see her belly

Answer 8

the only way u could help her..iz by tellin her about herself..jus say it in a nice way

Answer 9

tell her off. say she should have used nature's way of birth control, keep your clothes on and your f***ing legs closed.

Answer 10

tell her mom